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greeneyedgirl23
08-09-2005, 06:54 AM
I have yet another question for you guys....

If you knew that a girl liked you, and the feelings were mutual, would you always make a move?


I have a "crush" on a friend of a friend, and I am certain he knows it. I text messaged him when I was in his city about a month ago and he called right back and wanted me and my friends to come over. We didn't make it there that night, but I talked to him on the phone a few times. He told me that the next time I was around that we should meet up.

Well I was around there this weekend and it was his birthday. One of my friends that I was out with was invited to his birthday party by his friend. We ended up going to a club and not going to meet up with them once again.. I was sort of bummed, but it was her group of friends, I only knew him.

I ended up text messaging him to tell him that I hoped he had a great day, and later that night he messaged me back to tell me thank you.

He is really sweet, and I want to get to know him better, but I don't want to be too forward. Do you think that I am trying too hard by text messaging him? Should I back off until he calls/ texts first the next time? What do you Guys think?

eightball61
08-09-2005, 11:35 AM
Hint:

1.Stop the texting so much.
2. Dial his number(yourself)
3. & talk to him

Howard
08-09-2005, 11:18 PM
If you knew that a girl liked you, and the feelings were mutual, would you always make a move?

Yes,I most likely would.I would be a little shy at first but yes I would. :)

toffee3838
08-09-2005, 11:57 PM
Yes, just go for it. In retrospect, what do you have to lose? Something really great could come of it, an if you've just read the signs wrong, you feel stupid for a few days. No biggie. You have to try to succeed so go for it.

Rich
08-10-2005, 02:38 AM
It's better to have loved and lost, then never to have loved at all.

Diablo
08-11-2005, 01:18 PM
Just go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.