thetinydesk
10-17-2011, 05:38 AM
My fiance was out of town over the weekend and I was staying over at his place. He told me I could use his computer if I wanted - so I did, and I went to check my stock portfolio on yahoo, and the account was logged in under the name John (fiance's name is not John). So I thought, who the heck is John? So I go to the info page, and it is fiance's email addresses and such, so I assume it is some internet alter ego? Which is fine, whatever. Well I kept snooping (shame on me, I know...) and I find this old email sent to a craigslist address from 'John', complimenting someone of her pictures, and how y they are, and offers to buy her lingerie?! This email was sent back in 2009, when we were not together, so it isn't that I think he is cheating on me, but... This message seems SOO not like him at all, and is very unsettling and frankly disgusting. It is more the shock of how he spoke to this stranger that is getting me, and not the fact that he was talking to another girl before we were together. and it gets better, while I was looking at the sent email from this account someone messaged him 'hey' with a wink face, and their profile pic was a gal in underwear. At this point I just signed off. I feel like this is going to blow up in my face if I confront him because I was snooping, and I don't want to talk about it with my friends or family because it is probably nothing and I don't want to tarnish their nice view of him being a great guy. I don't know what to do, or if I should just forget I ever read that thing. Please help! :confused: