help me with this girl

[Faol]

I had a date with a girl and I think falling in love for the first time. I felt that there is something, she mostly talked and I listened, but after that first date, she didn't responde to my messages and calls. What should I do since I think that she is the one? She isn't like other girls I've met, she is simply the one.
Should I call her and when? I've been waiting for a week, time heals people say, but for how long? What wil I say to her?

[msthang]

If she has your number and a way to get in touch with you, I hate to break it to you but she doesn't feel the same. I can't tell you why exactly. There could be numerous reasons why (she didn't feel a connection, she could have her eye on someone else, something could've happened on the date that she didn't like,etc) However, this is a cowardly approach that people often take. I've been there, it sucks. It's never easy to accept being turned down someone you really liked. The best thing you can do is to distance yourself from the situation (don't call her or go around her anymore) It'll just stir up your own emotions. You don't need someone who's so immature and inconsiderate. Good luck sweetie.

[eightball61]

The first thing you dont want to do is over call her. I am sure she has your number and got those messages. You need to play it cool. It was only 1 date and you may have felt something over it but she may have not. Its really hard to tell but since you made many attempts allready its best to leave it be for now.