advise please..

[808boi]

Hey wassup everyone, I'm new to this fourm thing but here I go..I'm 27 and Me and my GF have been going out for almost a year now.. We are planning to get married soon but i dunno if it's the right choice im making...It's sorta hard on us because at the moment we are having a long distance relationship.. Am i moving to fast?? She also has a son from her previous marriage..It sorta troubles me because her past relationship's were not all that great as well, but atleast she was honest with me and told me everything.. :o

[eightball61]

We are planning to get married soon but i dunno if it's the right choice im making

If you have to question about making the right choice then you're obviously not ready. You need to go with what YOUR gut is telling you to do. If her words are persuading you to propose then YOU are making the wrong choice. Again, you need to go with what feels right for YOU.

[SALly]

Why are you long distance, have you always been? Do you have a date set for the wedding? Just wondering.

[808boi]

Why are you long distance, have you always been? Do you have a date set for the wedding? Just wondering.
I'm in the military now and this is the first time doing the long distance thing.. It's hard because i wanna be with her so bad but for now it seems to be going good..I just wanna make the right choice's..

[eightball61]

It's hard because i wanna be with her so bad but for now it seems to be going good..I just wanna make the right choice's..

If things are going as great as you specify they are then this relationship will still hold with or without a ring. If you feel a ring brings security to your heart then maybe you should get her a promise ring or even an engagement ring. But it maybe it's best that you hold off on the marriage thing until you can be closer to her physically. Go with your heart though and let that guide you. You know better than we do about your relationship so we can't really tell you to go for it or don't go for it.