college guy

[prsawyer]

:) last year i met a guy at college where i go and we are close in age and shy he approached me first and went out of his way for me to notice him. the first semester which was last year i saw him on the days i had school and we got to know each other some he would drop hints like he wanted to know more than once if i'm married or had a bf and would ask me question after question things about me and would tell me things about him especially when i would ask him something i did ask him to lunch but with our work and school schedule we never got to go. last semester i saw him once in a while but when i did he would smile and wink with his face all lit up and i would smile back at him. now when his friends were around this guy would be all nervous and shy and just stare at me while his friends were around. this semester has just started and we have not saw each other yet or maybe not even get too with our work and school schedule difference and i know he is really busy and tired while in school. cause, he works 30 hrs. and take between 16-20 hrs per semester so hes busy and we both understand that were trying to get an education.neither one of us are going anywhere since were trying to get an education i just miss this guy cause i really was not looking for anyone when this guy approached me it just happened. also i don't think he has much money cause at school when i've saw he does not eat much and he is their all day. he also does not have a cell phone or email where we can get in conact with each other. but the money , clothes or looks are not important to me i really like his personality.

[falisatee]

So why dont you go out of your way to talk to him when you do see him again.

[prsawyer]

a new semester and i do go out of my way and talk to him. but he gets so shy and nervous either he stares and smiles/ winks or he tries to talk and gets all toungue tied and can not say anything. but i keep approaching him and maybe he will come out of his shell. :)

[falisatee]

Ok...u need a new approach then. Write to him if he can't talk. If you do write to him make plans to meet with him in a private place where he won't feel so uncomfortable. Find out if he has a phone or email and if nothing else write notes and slip them to him. I guess its all up to how badly you want him.

[prsawyer]

i will not be doing any of this cause i found today that he is married :( which he never bother to tell me just approached and wanted to know everything about me and even made comments if i wanted to get married or have kids one day. i found out through one of his friends. even though he acted nervous and shy towards me. thanks

[falisatee]

WOW!! That's messed up. Sorry things turned out that way.

[Rich]

Sometimes.....ok, a lot of times, guys often think with their little head and not thier big one.

He was trying to catch some free "loving"on the side. Good catch.

[prsawyer]

that maybe true but he did act like he wanted to tell me something from day one but i could see in his eyes he did not have the heart to tell me. which i do not want to get involved with him whatever the situation is if he's not happy at home cause he goes out a lot with his friends and works a late shift and gets off at 5am and then goes to school that very same morning and gone all day at school. thanks for the advice someone else will come along.

[prsawyer]

ok that might be true but i do not know for sure this is just a rumor i will ask him on monday.

[prsawyer]

no i found out that he works from 12am to 5am then takes his classes 8 am to that afternoon. sleeps from noon to sometime that evening and he goes out alot with his guy friends so he does not spend a whole lot of time at home. but i have watch him on campus when he does not know i'm around he talks to girls but does not flirt and he never tried to get me to sleep with him. he just was really interested by asking alot of questions about marriage, kids and life after college. and he would flirt alot by smiling winking with his face all lit up, stare at me alot and this would happen at school and where people could see him do this out in public.