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confused2002
11-27-2005, 11:31 PM
I am very confused lately. I broke it off with the man that I still love and care about two years ago. I still think that he still loves me but he won't admitt it to me. We share a child together and he only wants our child back and not me. But lately he has been bringing up the past to me and then I start to wonder...Does he want me back! I hope and pray everyday that he will reconsider and take me back. I just need some guidence on how to work things out with him and start that candle one more time and keep the flame going for ever with him.

eightball61
11-27-2005, 11:38 PM
Why did the relationship end?

confused2002
11-27-2005, 11:45 PM
Why did the relationship end?
We just started aguing too much and he put blame on me for everything and i got tired of it and i just decided to get out. He also said that the house was never to clean for him and that he cared about the smaller things than the big things to clean

eightball61
11-28-2005, 12:38 AM
We just started aguing too much and he put blame on me for everything and i got tired of it and i just decided to get out.

It sounds to me that you made the right choice by exiting out of this relationship when you did. Many people in your position don't have the strength to exit out like you have. You are a very strong person but you are a little weak right now because you feel you want him back. It doesn't hurt to give this relationship another go but it will take 2 people to do that. To me he seems like the demanding type and that's a "reg flag" to look out for because that attitude [u]will[u/] worsen as time passes. Right now though you did whats best for you and your child and you should continue on that path until a solid change occurs within himself.

~8Ball