my boyfriend parties too much! Help

[haydog390]

Ok... I've been with my boy for 9 months. In the begining, he told me I was the one, he wanted to get married... blah blah blah.. well at that time we did everything together, we partying together everytime we went out. Well this past month or two, he's been wanting guys night out all the time... It started as only on Mondays, but now it's progressed to some weekend nights. He doesn't invite me to go anymore. He will hang out with me other nights, but we don't go out out... What do I do, he just wants me to give in and quit fighting with him about it. I wonder if it's a power thing, maybe if i give in it'll change. I'm pretty confident that he's not cheating, he just loves to hang out with his new guys friends, he just moved into a new house with some guys and is into all the new people around!!! It drives me nuts that when he goes out, he doesn't want me to go, cause it's his buddies... what the hell do i do????

[Showtime32]

Well hello,

I look at it this way. Im a man i rather spend time with significant other then go out with the other guys. yes its good to go out with friends, but if you are trying to build somethign with each other, that must comprimise with each other. He should invited you to some of the events , not all of them but most of them. I would want my friends to know who you are? ya know what im saying? He probably just likes to party with his friends in his new house. We all go through it, if u want to chat let me know!

Good luck, keep your head up