What is his deal?

[bettyboobs]

Five months a go, I met this guy while i was on a business trip. we exchanged contact information for work purposes (we did ended up working closely together). he lives on the west coast and i on the east coast. our attraction to each was undeniable. of course we gave into temptation and saw each other in different cities when we have to take business trips. now that our work relationship is over, he is planning a trip out east for a few days.

anyone would think that he really likes me, but recently he kept on asking me for a 3-some. i have told him no, but he is presistent. he even asked if i would considered doing it with another couple?
WHAT IS HIS DEAL?

[Rich]

Betty-

IMO and from another man's point of view. I think that since you guys "got together" pretty quickly without much dating, that he thinks that you're a freer, less prudish type of girl and would be opened to what he suggesting.

If you're not interested in what he's suggesting, just tell him that you were turned onto him only and not into that type of stuff and decline.

Also, since he's suggesting what he is, you might want to be careful that maybe he's done some stuff and exposed himself to more situations where STD's come into play. Maybe even say that he's higher risk then most guys. Be careful.

Rich

[bettyboobs]

thanks rich,

I guess you're right. men are sooo judgemental. And I am always careful. Just thought that he 'got' who I was. i want to explore the emotional side of this relationship, but he is so... kenetic. to make things more difficult, he wants to move to the east coast... not sure why. should i drop him or try to wade through this. folks, what do y'all think?

Bb

[CalistaClap]

I think that you need to ask him what he wants.

Is he there to have someone to hook up with now and then, or is he actually looking for a relationship.

If he is looking for a relationship, is he going to be willing to give up his threesomes, etc?