Am New But need advice!!

[catty]

Hi everyone, my name is cat and im new to this board.
I have a HUGE dilema, here goes....
Im a student nurse and have just finished a placement in a hospital, while i was there i met a doctor who i really liked.
We got on quite well at work and i thought he liked me as well but found out that he was in a relationship.
I distanced myself from him when i knew he was taken, but he was as sweet, chatty and tactile with me as he had always been.
He is quite shy and often i would look up to catch him looking at me we would have eye contact for a while and then look away.
On my last day (friday) there was a doctors party which i was invited to, he kept saying that he really wanted me to go.
We spent most of the night chatting etc and i found out more about him, he has been with his partner for twelve years and owns a house with her, he wants kids and she doesnt, im said that was a big sacrifice to make for someone and he just sort of shrugged his shoulders.
All night we flirted, touched, danced, laughed and chatted together, he kissed me on the dancefloor and then said he shouldnt have done that.
To cut a very long story short i ended up sleeping with him and it was lovely, he said hes never cheated on his girlfriend b4 and it could never happen again, he said we could only be together for one night, and that he could fall in love with me so easilly.
we held each other all night and in the morning we didnt really say good bye, we just kissed and went our seperate ways.
I havent eaten since, i cant sleep or think of anything but him.
I txt'd him that if he ever wanted to meet up to call me but that id understand if he didnt want to.
i've heard nothing and dont expect to, but i know he wants me, maybe not enough to leave his girlfriend for but i know he didnt want the night to end and neither did i.
It wouldnt be so bad if it was an awful experience, but it wasnt..
Im so sorry for the novel but can any give me some advice about this terrible mess ive got myself into???

[TWR]

I would move on. If it were meant to happen he may contact you in the future when he is ready.

[Showtime32]

Wow, That is crazy...I look at it this way if it was meant to be it will. Just keep your head up. I think you should let him call you. He is in a relationship and he needs to decide what he wants. Please dont starve yourself over this. You never know he might be sitting there not even thinking about this at all. Just continue with you life and what you are doing. Don't worry about what hes doing. If its meant to be it will. If you want to chat let me know, Would love to talk... Help you through this

[natber]

Hi everyone, my name is cat and im new to this board.
I have a HUGE dilema, here goes....
Im a student nurse and have just finished a placement in a hospital, while i was there i met a doctor who i really liked.
We got on quite well at work and i thought he liked me as well but found out that he was in a relationship.
I distanced myself from him when i knew he was taken, but he was as sweet, chatty and tactile with me as he had always been.
He is quite shy and often i would look up to catch him looking at me we would have eye contact for a while and then look away.
On my last day (friday) there was a doctors party which i was invited to, he kept saying that he really wanted me to go.
We spent most of the night chatting etc and i found out more about him, he has been with his partner for twelve years and owns a house with her, he wants kids and she doesnt, im said that was a big sacrifice to make for someone and he just sort of shrugged his shoulders.
All night we flirted, touched, danced, laughed and chatted together, he kissed me on the dancefloor and then said he shouldnt have done that.
To cut a very long story short i ended up sleeping with him and it was lovely, he said hes never cheated on his girlfriend b4 and it could never happen again, he said we could only be together for one night, and that he could fall in love with me so easilly.
we held each other all night and in the morning we didnt really say good bye, we just kissed and went our seperate ways.
I havent eaten since, i cant sleep or think of anything but him.
I txt'd him that if he ever wanted to meet up to call me but that id understand if he didnt want to.
i've heard nothing and dont expect to, but i know he wants me, maybe not enough to leave his girlfriend for but i know he didnt want the night to end and neither did i.
It wouldnt be so bad if it was an awful experience, but it wasnt..
Im so sorry for the novel but can any give me some advice about this terrible mess ive got myself into???
Hey Cat,

I feel your pain. I am in somewhat of a similar situation. I have not slept with the person, in fact we haven't even kissed. But that is because we are both affraid of what might happend if we did. I wish I had some real advice for you but I don't think I do. If you want to chat though I am more than willing. Feel free to email if wish.

[catty]

HI everyone, thank you all so much for your kind words,
i am feeling better about the situation but because time is healer as they say.
I still think of that night and feel incredabley sad but i have learnt from this experience and will not be so quick to believe words said in the throws of passion.
i hope some of you situations work out and feel free to email me if i can be of any help or just a listening ear.

Cat,