is a male nurse y or not??

[kira]

Hi,
I have a question. A while ago I was talking to my friend, he is a male nurse and he complained that when chatting up women, they loose interest when he mentions his occupation. I laughed at him and said “ being a nurse should be to your advantage in attracting us girls, it must be something else” However, a few days ago I briefly met a man, who I thought was real y and masculine. We were having a wonderful time and I find out he is works as a nurse. The funny thing is I still thought he was a great guy, but my attraction to him diminished. I’m confused, what does anyone else think about this?

[eightball61]

Just remember when you date someone you date them for who they are. You're not dating their occupation.

[kira]

I know his job should'nt matter, and nursing shows hes probably a caring guy, but if he said he was a firefighter or a cop, would i have felt different about him? You know being a brave, confident and assertive man rather than a . I am being honest to say a man in a nurturing role doesnt do it for me. I think him being a nurse is great, but i feel less attracted to him ually. Maybe my friend has a point. I guess its the difference between the politically correct thing to say and the truth.

[kira]

I know his job should'nt matter, and nursing shows hes probably a caring guy, but if he said he was a firefighter or a cop, would i have felt different about him? You know being a brave, confident and assertive man rather than a . I am being honest to say a man in a nurturing role doesnt do it for me. I think him being a nurse is great, but i feel less attracted to him ually. Maybe my friend has a point. I guess its the difference between the politically correct thing to say and the truth.

[kira]

Sorry triple posted, cant delete.

[eightball61]

Simple, if he doesn't attract you in that kind of way then just move on to the next batchler.

[yourstruly]

kira, I think its just probably your brain working overtime. Male nurses are everywhere! In this world of dating, careers shouldn't matter---only that they HAVE one. Your attraction for this man should only include the physical and the emotional---how you feel and how he makes you feel when you are with him. Even if he was a ditch digger.

[2BDMD]

Kira:

If you're physical attracted to this nurse guy, then you should just go with it. I can tell you, since I'm in the health profession, nurses are one of the important component of our health care. If I were you, I would date a nurse before a freaking cop or a firefighter. Nothing against cops or firefighters as we need them in our society, but lets face it, most of them don't even have an education past high school.

At least a nurse man is intelligent and educated.

I know several male nurses, they're all cool ass guys that pulls a lot of . Only you can decided what you want to deal with, but I can tell you one thing from experience in dating. If there is something that bothers you in the beginning of a relationship, then that one thing will always bother you.

Good luck, but I say give the dude a chance, especially if you're physically attracted to him.