immiker
03-08-2006, 09:20 PM
I'm 17, she's 18. I work with the most beautiful girl i've ever seen. Throughout the past few months of us knowing each other, we have began to become comfortable with each other quite a bit. I've gotta to know, and love her personality. I think she understands me fairly decently. We always joke about random stuff. She jokes with others quite frequently (I guess you could say she is a flirt..she does it a lot..to a lot of people she's comfortable with) It started with random things having nothing to do with me or her, and kinda escalated to the point that we kinda "joke" about making out with each other. Quite frequently. Most conversation we have, seems not be not on the serious side. An example of the thing I've been talking about (if you dont know what I mean) is:
-We frequently joke about her and I getting a sickness called "pink lips" a made up disease because she had gotten pink lips from a candy she was eating at work one day. We joke with each other, that either I..or her, gave the other "pink lips" from kissing each other.
It progressed from there last night, to a point that i'm extremely confused. I gave her a bracelet to wear when I first got to work (a band I had been wearing on my hand..nothing serious.) and she put it on. I worked for a bit, came back and chatted (the usual joking way) and made friendly conversation. Well, towards the end of the night somethin or somethin had happened and I was kinda pretending to be sad (inside story kinda hard to explain) but, she kept asking why I was so sad (in a silly kinda way). I played around with that for a few minutes and eventually (I cant remember how) she got to say she "loves me". I'm sure she was once again, joking like usual, but I said i loved her too (using the same tone she did). She then said "we're in love." ...once again..unsure if she is serious or kidding. A few minutes later I came back and said one final move "so, we're pretty much going out by now..right?". "Yeah, for sure" she replied. Whenever we see each other..we do a little lovestruck smile and do "eyebrow bops" with a smirk on our faces. Well, she later asked if I wanted the bracelet back, and I said "no, you keep it". She then said "I will keep this forever" (once again, I'm wondering if she's serious). I said "No you wont.", confidently thinking she wouldnt actually care about it..but at the same time it seemed like she kinda did. Well...she told me that she loved me a few more times and it was about time to go. I was ready to go, started walking out of the building and she said "hey", I looked behind me. She stuck the "i love you" hand sign out and mouthed the words "i love you" and I did the same, I left, and thats where I'm at. She DOES joke with other co-workers quite frequently (obviously she is a flirt and she uses those tools quite frequently)
Keep in mind, I'm 17, she's 18.
Am i completely caught in this "game"?
Is there a chance she does actually like me.
I dont see how someone acts this way with someone they have no feelings for.
Maybe I'm just another "little buddy" for her.
HELP PEOPLE!!
-matt
-We frequently joke about her and I getting a sickness called "pink lips" a made up disease because she had gotten pink lips from a candy she was eating at work one day. We joke with each other, that either I..or her, gave the other "pink lips" from kissing each other.
It progressed from there last night, to a point that i'm extremely confused. I gave her a bracelet to wear when I first got to work (a band I had been wearing on my hand..nothing serious.) and she put it on. I worked for a bit, came back and chatted (the usual joking way) and made friendly conversation. Well, towards the end of the night somethin or somethin had happened and I was kinda pretending to be sad (inside story kinda hard to explain) but, she kept asking why I was so sad (in a silly kinda way). I played around with that for a few minutes and eventually (I cant remember how) she got to say she "loves me". I'm sure she was once again, joking like usual, but I said i loved her too (using the same tone she did). She then said "we're in love." ...once again..unsure if she is serious or kidding. A few minutes later I came back and said one final move "so, we're pretty much going out by now..right?". "Yeah, for sure" she replied. Whenever we see each other..we do a little lovestruck smile and do "eyebrow bops" with a smirk on our faces. Well, she later asked if I wanted the bracelet back, and I said "no, you keep it". She then said "I will keep this forever" (once again, I'm wondering if she's serious). I said "No you wont.", confidently thinking she wouldnt actually care about it..but at the same time it seemed like she kinda did. Well...she told me that she loved me a few more times and it was about time to go. I was ready to go, started walking out of the building and she said "hey", I looked behind me. She stuck the "i love you" hand sign out and mouthed the words "i love you" and I did the same, I left, and thats where I'm at. She DOES joke with other co-workers quite frequently (obviously she is a flirt and she uses those tools quite frequently)
Keep in mind, I'm 17, she's 18.
Am i completely caught in this "game"?
Is there a chance she does actually like me.
I dont see how someone acts this way with someone they have no feelings for.
Maybe I'm just another "little buddy" for her.
HELP PEOPLE!!
-matt