New Guy

[T3RR1B1E]

Hello everyone. As you can see, im new to the forums. I joined b/c I figured I could use some advice or help for a situation I am in. Help is always good, right? haha.

Anyways, lookin` forward to chatting it up. :D

[Howard]

Welcome Terrible. :)

[eightball61]

Welcome :)

[T3RR1B1E]

Thanks for the welcome!

[Howard]

What situation are you in?:confused:

[T3RR1B1E]

Well, its kind of over and done with now. I was with a girl who, in her past, had "bad" boyfriends. I come along and I basically treat this girl like a she should be treated (atleast in my own opinion) and in turn, I felt like I was underappreciated simply b/c she would do things that I didnt like very much. For instance, commenting on how "hot" two of my friends are, and last week one of the bar backs from a local club stopped and talked to her just saying some piss-poor things to try and get to know her. What I mean by piss poor is that he sees US together EVERY week we go in there and yet he continues to stare at her (yeah, whatever, no problem), then I go up to the bar last week and he sees her alone and stops to talk to her and says "Hey, dancing alone?" "I see you in here alot" and some other random jibberish. Honestly, I dont worry that she will leave me for any of these guys, but c`mon, thats a respect boundary you dont cross.
Well anyways, basically I treat this girl probably the best ive ever treated anyone and I dont think it got me anywhere. I guess she isnt the one and now im going to move on.

Of course, theres alot more I didnt write about, so I can answer any questions you guys may have.
Thanks for the help btw.

[Howard]

Well, its kind of over and done with now. I was with a girl who, in her past, had "bad" boyfriends. I come along and I basically treat this girl like a she should be treated (atleast in my own opinion) and in turn, I felt like I was underappreciated simply b/c she would do things that I didnt like very much. For instance, commenting on how "hot" two of my friends are, and last week one of the bar backs from a local club stopped and talked to her just saying some piss-poor things to try and get to know her. What I mean by piss poor is that he sees US together EVERY week we go in there and yet he continues to stare at her (yeah, whatever, no problem), then I go up to the bar last week and he sees her alone and stops to talk to her and says "Hey, dancing alone?" "I see you in here alot" and some other random jibberish. Honestly, I dont worry that she will leave me for any of these guys, but c`mon, thats a respect boundary you dont cross.
Well anyways, basically I treat this girl probably the best ive ever treated anyone and I dont think it got me anywhere. I guess she isnt the one and now im going to move on.

Of course, theres alot more I didnt write about, so I can answer any questions you guys may have.
Thanks for the help btw.


Do you plan on engaging in anymore relationships?

[T3RR1B1E]

Do you plan on engaging in anymore relationships?

Yes of course I do.

[eightball61]

Yes of course I do.


That's the right attitude;)

[Howard]

Yes of course I do.



That's a positive attitude,Terrible.;)

[T3RR1B1E]

haha, thanks guys. I have no problem risking heart ache.... it just sucks when it does happen.

[Howard]

haha, thanks guys. I have no problem risking heart ache.... it just sucks when it does happen.


Be prepared for when it does.;)