Serena
03-25-2006, 11:55 AM
Hey there. I have an unbelievably awkward situation. You see (I am a teenager, if any of this seem immature, heh) well, My twin brother's best friend, Michael* has been in love with me for ages, and I am not attracted to him. He is always acting all macho, and brags about how good he is at rugby etc, and he is quite a 'player' you know?...basically, I do not want this guy at all...
To make this much much worse....over the past couple of months I have been falling in love with Michael's* older brother, Steve*, and the feelings are mutual. But we know that we have both been avoiding telling each other how we feel(we both know anyway) because of Michael. But I love Steve, I want to be with him so much. We both have things in common...he is absolultley stunning....and he is a charming guy, and cares more about your feelings, and has never had a selfish tone to his person. And god....well....he is just brilliant.
But Yesterday, our feelings got out into the open. Steve asked me out, I said yeah, and we kissed and all other amazing stuff, and I phone him all the time, and man...I am so so so so so so so happy.....But Michael found out, and he was the very last person to find out (Even his mum knew before him)My brother knew....so I thought he might have told him, which explains the lack of texts from him, so I thought he never liked me anymore. But when he found out about Steve and I...he admited that he still liked me, and went completley insane. he is saying stuff like he wants to kill me, but the only reason why he doesnt want me dead is because he is in love with me, and he said he is going to Kill Steve, and kill himself, and take drugs etc. He is blaming this all on me and is calling me the most horrible things you can imagine....and it's really upsetting me. I have told Steve this, but he said "Don't worry....he's just being overdramatic. He doesnt mean what he says" and I've just to ignore it.
We all go to the same school, and now both Michael and steve have fell out, and I have cause them family problems, and Michael feels publicly humiliated.... But another thing is, Michael is a very very violent guy, who has had professional help in the past.
What would you do in this situation?? I'd like very much to hear your views...thanks. x
To make this much much worse....over the past couple of months I have been falling in love with Michael's* older brother, Steve*, and the feelings are mutual. But we know that we have both been avoiding telling each other how we feel(we both know anyway) because of Michael. But I love Steve, I want to be with him so much. We both have things in common...he is absolultley stunning....and he is a charming guy, and cares more about your feelings, and has never had a selfish tone to his person. And god....well....he is just brilliant.
But Yesterday, our feelings got out into the open. Steve asked me out, I said yeah, and we kissed and all other amazing stuff, and I phone him all the time, and man...I am so so so so so so so happy.....But Michael found out, and he was the very last person to find out (Even his mum knew before him)My brother knew....so I thought he might have told him, which explains the lack of texts from him, so I thought he never liked me anymore. But when he found out about Steve and I...he admited that he still liked me, and went completley insane. he is saying stuff like he wants to kill me, but the only reason why he doesnt want me dead is because he is in love with me, and he said he is going to Kill Steve, and kill himself, and take drugs etc. He is blaming this all on me and is calling me the most horrible things you can imagine....and it's really upsetting me. I have told Steve this, but he said "Don't worry....he's just being overdramatic. He doesnt mean what he says" and I've just to ignore it.
We all go to the same school, and now both Michael and steve have fell out, and I have cause them family problems, and Michael feels publicly humiliated.... But another thing is, Michael is a very very violent guy, who has had professional help in the past.
What would you do in this situation?? I'd like very much to hear your views...thanks. x