help im heart broken

[danielle1969]

Hi my name is Danielle and my b/f jus dump me 2 days before christmas, and it really hurts. We had been goin out for three yrs and he makes me think that it was waste. I know this is wrong but I keep calling his cell phone non-stop try to to get him to understand the way i feel. BUt when he picks up all he does is call me name and hang up. I dont know if its the routine that im in love with or what. But I cat stop calling him... I just dont know what do to or what I did wrong.... Im reallly depressed... someone help me PLZ

[eightball61]

Break-ups are never made to be easy. Infact they are one of the hardest things to deal with when attached to a person do much. It will take time to move on but you need to keep high hope and not break down. There is nothing wrong with crying but don't allow it to over power you.

This guy is being a jerk in all ways. What is the point to continue to call him when he is just hurting you more? If you need to then write a letter to him and just drop it in the mail box without a return address or his on the envelope. Another thing is buy a journal and write in it.

Things like this are hard but we are here for you.

[CalistaClap]

Danielle,

I've so been there! My last b/f and I were going out for 2 years, and he dumped me for a married woman he has been having an affair with, 4 days before Christmas. People can be so cruel that way. The way I think, he must have known that he was going to do it, couldn't he have done it like a few weeks before, or even wait a few more days and do it on the 26th?

Then with my current b/f of 2 years (or ex, it's still up in the air) I found out a few days before Christmas of this year that he was trying to sleep with another woman a few months back.

I do agree, it's a very hard time of the year to have to face being single when you've became so attached to someone. But also, it can be good too, because most of the time there is more family and friends around to occupy your time. Even though it may not feel like their doing any good, they are.

As far as calling him, he's let you know how he feels. I know the whole not having closeur thing keeps you wanting to get an answer, but face it, would you even want to spend your life with someone who would do this to you over the holidays? Then call you names when you try to get an answer?

It's tough, but you can get through it. Most of us have all been there one time or another.