buffalobill
01-01-2005, 03:33 AM
I really need some advice!!!!!
I will try and keep this as brief as possible. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 15 months. It was just recently that she found out i had another email which i used to cyber with. Now we both see differently on this subject. She thinks i am cheating, and i think i am just getting my rocks off from it. I have no contact with these people other than when i am doing "the deed". Now in my eyes, i would rather my partner being doing the same thing as i was caught doing than going out into the "real world" and getting a piece of action. Maybe i am wrong and this will cause some people to agree/disagree, but that is not really the subject here. Since that night she found out i was doing that. My house has been receiving calls from some guy that i don't know. She takes the call and basically "hides" away from me while she talks to him. She has 3-4 hour talks with this guy, and even instant messages him online for hours after one of these conversations. She says it is just a friend. But, she has been out till the wee hours of the morning and when i confronted her about it. She finally caved in and told me she was out with him (after some evidence searching on my part, not gonna get into details). Since the day she caught me cybering, she has asked me to move out as soon as i found a place. I love this woman with all my heart (also 2 young girls i adore), and if i knew this action would of caused this chain of events i would never have done it. But the damage has been done, and there is not much i can do but try to mend some open wounds. But the question i need to ask here is, is it worth even trying to fix this relationship if she is interested/cheating with another guy and lying about seeing him? Any help would be greatly appreciated thankyou.
I will try and keep this as brief as possible. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 15 months. It was just recently that she found out i had another email which i used to cyber with. Now we both see differently on this subject. She thinks i am cheating, and i think i am just getting my rocks off from it. I have no contact with these people other than when i am doing "the deed". Now in my eyes, i would rather my partner being doing the same thing as i was caught doing than going out into the "real world" and getting a piece of action. Maybe i am wrong and this will cause some people to agree/disagree, but that is not really the subject here. Since that night she found out i was doing that. My house has been receiving calls from some guy that i don't know. She takes the call and basically "hides" away from me while she talks to him. She has 3-4 hour talks with this guy, and even instant messages him online for hours after one of these conversations. She says it is just a friend. But, she has been out till the wee hours of the morning and when i confronted her about it. She finally caved in and told me she was out with him (after some evidence searching on my part, not gonna get into details). Since the day she caught me cybering, she has asked me to move out as soon as i found a place. I love this woman with all my heart (also 2 young girls i adore), and if i knew this action would of caused this chain of events i would never have done it. But the damage has been done, and there is not much i can do but try to mend some open wounds. But the question i need to ask here is, is it worth even trying to fix this relationship if she is interested/cheating with another guy and lying about seeing him? Any help would be greatly appreciated thankyou.