Wife or Best Buddy?

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If your wife and your best bud had ual relations prior to your relationship with your wife. Would you still invite your bud over to your house with your new wife (his old flame)??

[eightball61]

If your wife and your best bud had ual relations prior to your relationship with your wife. Would you still invite your bud over to your house with your new wife (his old flame)??


Different people see differently to this question but as for me I don't think I could handle that. Now, if this was a relationship many years back and things seem to be fine with them around then I don't see why not....but it all depends if you can handle it.

[yourstruly]

hmmmm, tough situation. I guess it would all depend on how good of a friend your best bud is. If he's truly a best bud, then there shouldn't be any problem at all. And likewise, if you and your wife are doing fine and there's no reason for her eyes to wander, then there shouldn't be any problem.

[SALly]

Sorry but I would say no f*ckin way!!!!!!!!!!!! I was screwed over bad by someone I truly thought was a good friend. You would only be inviting trouble into your home.

[Rich]

Depends. How many women were there in between your buddy and wife’s get together? Did he have few girls after her? If he’s your “best buddy”, then you should know his feelings about your wife because, as “best buddies” he would have been confiding in you about his feelings towards her while they were dating. How does he feel about you marrying an ex girlfriend of his? Surely as best buddy’s you talked to him before you started dating your wife about how he would feel about you dating an ex of his, right? You did that, right?

IMO you’d have less hard ache if it were your wife that ended it with him instead of vice versa. If your friend ended it and now he sees how good a wife that she is, he might want to get her back. If your wife ended it, then even if he wanted to get her back, she will, or should, say no because she had ended it with him for various reasons and doesn’t want him anymore.

Only you truly know how much trust that you can place in both your wife and friend. TRUE friends don’t their buddy’s wife. So if you’re “true” friends, then there’s nothing to worry about.

Then again, if she ended it with him to be with you, then there might be some payback. But then again, true “best buddy’s” don’t do that.