Big Fight

[ziggyboo]

Dating a guy for 2.5 months who came out of a 20 year marriage in June. 2 kids -- 12/16. We were inseparable since we met, always together, he is wonderuful, very supporting, caring and loving. Go to LA to go to Disneyland, trip turned bad and we had huge fight. We get back he wont take my calls and calls me and says due to break of marriage, kids, etc. he is emotionally drained. He says he needs time and to please not call him anymore. Again, this man called me four times day for last 75 days, gave me drawers at his house, talked about a future, gave me three christmas cards, his kidness and love was exceptional and now, just like that, he won't take my calls. He needs time........ How do you let someone you know you miss them, if they wont talk. I am hurting so bad!! Any advice?

[CalistaClap]

Can I ask what the fight was over?

Also, if he has some type of voice mail you could leave him a msg and spill your heart out in that. Or also write him a letter.

That is a good way to get everything you feel off of your chest, and put it out there how you feel about him. Then the decision is up to him. BUt at least you gave it all you got.

[eightball61]

There not much you can do right now besides he wants time. I know this is not what you wanted to hear but its the truth.....

He had a 20 year marriage and has kids...He probably jump on the single ride a little to sooner than planned and now its all catching up to him. The trip may have reminded him of past times with his ex. and the kids. I know it was suppose to be a nice time for you but his memory is all over the map.

Maybe it may work out in the future and maybe it wont but for now you have to respect his request and try to move on.