Help me plz!

[James]

Hi, me and my gf have been going out for almost 18months, we used to live in the same town and we lived together for 6 months, she moved 2 hours away and we see each other in the weekends, except this 1 as she doesnt no if she loves me anymore. Im absolutely crazy about her, i love her so much and shes knows that. She was so happy and she sent me the best text saying how much she loves me etc etc but 3 days later she comes out and says she doesnt no and wants to have a small break to figure it out. Ive been texting and emailing her letting her no how much she means to me and i even prayed for us to stay together but i no i cant make her love me. she does text me back a few times but she always says shes too busy but she never used to be, she would always text me. Is this something that happens in relationships a bit? Is there anything else i can do to maybe help her see that she really does love me?

[jimbostar]

Take it easy on telling her how much you love, care about her, etc. Do that by your actions. By you telling her all the time, it makes her think you're insecure. She will tire of a puppy dog licking her ankles all the time. Text and email her things that you would talk about with a friend. Ask her questions about her interests, then follow up with more in depth ones. Give it a few days in between. Let her think you have a life too!

Jim

[James]

mmm she text me this morning and said that she loves me texting her and she doesnt think im being clingy, so yea but she ran out $$ on her phone now anyway and cant afford any till wednesday

[Saliva4]

One thing that ive learnt the hard way is that when a GF or BF wants some space to sort their feelings out contacting them can push them further away.

Let them get back to you...after all absence makes the heart grow fonder! or so i like to think :P