When your roommate starts acting like your mother!

[polymath]

It's very annoying! I am F^&5kin 24 years old. I have maintained a well paid job for 5 years, make more money than her. I have my own new car and very responsible.

I go out of town this weekend and didnt call her so she is now mad... WTF and why do I have to call her?? She isnt my mother I have been on my own since 18 my mother isnt even as protective as her.

It's getting to the point where I want to move out and am done with her. Everytime I go anywhere it's like 50 questions... where u going? who u going with? can I come?

WTF :rolleyes: and its like I cant bring anyone home...any guy at least unless she likes him...

I only moved in with her because I wanted to save some money on rent. I was happily in my 1 bedroom apartment. :rolleyes:

I think I shall be looking for a new apartment or townhouse

[yourstruly]

sounds like she's jealous of what you have and of your friends, etc. does she have her own life and friends? maybe she just needs a little attention and to feel included?

[onefourtwelve]

i wouldn't enable her behavior. next time she starts throwing out questions just be vague or simply tell her that it's none of her business...or of course you could always sit down and talk with her about how much it bothers you.

and as yourstruly said - she may be jealous of what you have. maybe she just wants to be included?

[thegeek]

maybe it aint a case that shes jealous more that she fancies the of ya an wants to be doing stuff with ya all the time just to be near ya ;)

[I hate men]

you need to get your own place, get a life and stop taking orders from your mother

[Diablo]

If she's acting more like a mother than a girlfriend, it might be her biological clock going off. Since she doesn't have a kid, you'll do. This is not someone you want a relationship with. People who mother people who are not their kids tend to be overbearing with it. I suggest that you get a place of your own; however, these days you should be careful where you move to.