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Jakewiley
06-11-2006, 12:24 AM
Well, this may just sound a bit daft and insignificant.
I'm only young but i have a problem and it's really eating me:(
I'm not even sure what to do...if anything, about it.
Well.
I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months now and i love her so much, She's a christian and think that's the reason, but i don't think she would go further than kissing until she's sixteen or whatever, which is like 2 years, and i don't think i'd be willing to wait...at all. In the beggining i thought it was actually going somewhere because of the way she hinted on but her best friend (who i am also friends with) told me that she thinks katie (my girlfriend) wouldn't go further. But that's not me at all. If i knew it was gradually going somewhere then i'd wait, i'd wait up to 8 months if i had to. But katie just so perfect, i hate this. What i'm asking is...
Wether i should tell her how i feel or not.
Wether what i'm doing is even right.
Wether i should continue dating her...

Please...Anyone?
Jake.

CrazyFool
06-11-2006, 05:20 AM
Hmm, I dunno man. Are you 14 too? I have plenty of friends that are considerably older than you that have had to wait for period..is it that huge of an issue for you? I guess you have to ask yourself if Katie means more to you than the you could be having with her. If she does, and is perfect to you like you say, I wouldn't waste it. If she makes you happy now, think of how happy she'll make you in the future. You have to ask yourself if it's worth losing the girl altogether over her wanting to wait to have .

-Crazyfool

Jakewiley
06-11-2006, 09:32 AM
Hmm, I dunno man. Are you 14 too? I have plenty of friends...

Yeah i'm 14, she is totally perfect, i can see what you mean, i'm not really saying that i can't wait, because i want to wait, it's just that i want to know that it is actually heading my way... maybe i'm seeing this from a wrong angle...

Thanks alot, you have actually made things clearer for me :)

Any additional help or view would be greatly apprieciated.

Jake.

strafer
06-12-2006, 03:02 AM
You are both 14, you've known her for 3 months, give it a little more time before you make up your mind that's she's perfect.