New here with a question

[Marc4743]

I'ma young guy, in a young relationship 20, and the GF is 19. We've been dating for about 4 months now

MY question is about her. I was wondering if it is normal for a girl of her age to be totally uninterested in the physical part of the relationship. I personally feel that its important, although not as important as the emotional part.


She says shes never been interested in it, and it isnt against any morals for her. Now im not talking , just basic touching and so on. She is very uncomfortable with me touching her in areas like her stomach. I dont knwo if it is a confidence problem or what.

Emotionally she is very attached to me.

anywho i was just wondering if it was a normal thing since ive personally never experienced a girl like this. I thought maybe its a maturity thing, or self confidence or jsut overall being uncomfortable.

thanks for looking,
Marc

[rms8]

No one can be entirely sure if she's completely not interested in a physical relationship but it seems like she's just young and self-conscious. Given the fact that your relationship is still pretty new try and give her time to adjust to physical contact with someone outside her family. Take it slow and start with an arm around her or holding hands across the table...things like that. Hopefully she'll warm up and feel secure in letting you into her personal space. It can be a very scary thing letting the big bad man access to your body for the first time :)

[Marc4743]

exactly what I thought...thank you :)

[Howard]

Maybe she's feels uncomfortable and insecure about her body or you touching it but take it slow and take your time and before you know it,She'll want you to ravage her body.Good Luck.:)

[SaraJane86]

I don't wanna make u sad but i think she is emotionaly detatched... When i don't really feel much for my bf anymore or he makes me sad, i don't want him to touch me or kiss me or anything. It just makes me feel uncomfortable when he touches me and i don't have the same feelings at the time. You really need to talk to your gf..somethin is up.

[Marc4743]

Sara she loves kissing me and she lets me touch her a little more now....shes never let any guys touch her...and shes never had a relationship over 3 months so I think shes just uncomfortable with it, and it is improvnig slowly.....but very very slowly

and the way she talks to me I'd definately say shes emotionally attached

[Howard]

With Robin,She loves the way that I kiss her all over and now that we're exclusive,We're not dating anybody and I trust her that she won't cheat and I give her MY word that I won't cheat myself.I love her and that's all that counts in this relationship. :)

[Rich]

Dude, all people are different. If this girl doesn't like to be physical and you like doing that stuff, then she's not the one for you. You're not destined to marry every girl that you date. Don't stay and try to fit a square peg in a round hole, either. Move on.

You don't have to part as enemies or in anger. Just say that you're incompatible. It happens. You like touching, she doesn't. Oh well, move on and try again.