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meeka
01-16-2005, 12:29 AM
It's amazing how much my life has changed recently! I always thought that I would never find anyone that I would falling in love with and develop a relationship with them, but that I would instead at most grow to love someone! I had an unsual upbringing, where relationships were viewed negatively, and I was taught that there were not good men out there! and that they would only want to get me pregnant! LOL! But in all honesty this stuck with me and I developed a phobia about being in a relationship with someone! Anytime that someone tried to get close to me I had urges to get away from them!

People always told me that when I met the right person that this phobia would go and I laughed! but now I look back thinking that they were right! as that's exactly what happened to me! now I can actually picture myself doing those normal things like getting married and starting a family! it's amazing how your life can change!

eightball61
01-17-2005, 01:53 PM
It is amazing how life changes at the the blink of an eye. You were brought up with different tellings and morels than some people. Your family had a bad history of men and thats why. Some people go through life learning women have to care for men. This is all part of the rapid change that our world is taken. Years back women were trained to care for men and thier needs. Now they are learning different ways and learning how to care for themselves and not just man. Thats all part of how we are all equal but different in many ways.