advice needed!!

[Motogirl4usmc]

HELP! I've found the most awesome guy. He treats me like a queen!! I mean really I can't believe it. I guess he appreciates a woman who actually stays faithful. So I want to do EVERYTHING and anything I can to keep him happy as he does that for me.

Well.,....I NEVER though I"d have to ask for advice on this. I'm 28 yo now. I've been having since I was 17 and with various guys of various sizes and shapes, but nothing out of the ordinary.

Well....my new guy, well he's really big down there!!! We had for the 1st time last night. Let me just put it this way....it SCARED ME! Just gaging by my grip and all, I counted him to be probably 9 inches or so and a fairly large girth. I couldn't barely fit my mouth around. I couldn't go down very far either =(. So we tried all sorts of positions and it was hurting me when he would go in to a certain point no matter what. I wasn't tense. I was relaxed.

So will this pass? Will I become used to it more, or does it hit a certain point and there's no more room. I don't know what else I can do to help make it so he can go in all the way. I can tell it's frustrating to him and also because he can't go in all the way I think that's why he goes for a long time.

HELP! :o

[brandybratt]

It does get better it just takes sometime. Just advise him to gentle and you will eventually get used to it. I was once with someone who was almost 11 inches and the first couple of attemps i didn't even let him inside it scared me so much. But after the 1st time and a couple of more my body got used to it. I will admit though there where still a couple of time it hurt but I deal with that now with my fiancee and he isn't that well endowd and it hurts me sometimes.

[Howard]

Maybe it seems that you both have to relax.It could be that's the reason why,You're so wired up that you don't have a chance to slow it down.Take your time and ease up.You'll do fine.

[smackie9]

Wow! You would be considered a lucky lady. But the reality is bigger isn't always better, but painful instead. In any situation like this, there's ways around it. Like everyone has said....just relax. If he's just a wonderful man, he will be patient and guide you.

[Howard]

Or you can guide him.You both should take time and ease up,relax and the will be fine.

9 Inches?:eek:

God,I'm jealous!:D