Someone Help Me Big Time!

[blackliner]

ok so heres my dilema. i have been dating this man for amost 7 months now. i am so very happy with him. but i wasnt always this happy. there was a lot of neglect on his end in the relationship which caused me to turn to someone else.. so now my boyfriend is more loving than ever and our relationship is going good. but im still stuck with this other man. i want to end it with this person but i dont want my boyfriend to know. i will lie if i have to. i know i know, its not the moral thing to do... but im so in love and i dont want the drama. i just want it to stop. can anyone throw some ideas at me? PLEASE? IM DESPERATE!:(

[tecnochick]

Well he is gonna find out sooner or later, but i would end the relationship with the other man asap. Evan if you have to i would tell the man you are going out with now about him, lying will only make it worse when he finds out. And tell the other man you are not interested in him anymore and that you both need to move on with your lives hope this helps

[shylittlewomen]

ok so heres my dilema. i have been dating this man for amost 7 months now. i am so very happy with him. but i wasnt always this happy. there was a lot of neglect on his end in the relationship which caused me to turn to someone else.. so now my boyfriend is more loving than ever and our relationship is going good. but im still stuck with this other man. i want to end it with this person but i dont want my boyfriend to know. i will lie if i have to. i know i know, its not the moral thing to do... but im so in love and i dont want the drama. i just want it to stop. can anyone throw some ideas at me? PLEASE? IM DESPERATE!:(

First off take it from some one that has lied to save there butt, It isn't worth it. You have to be honest not only with your boyfriend, but with the other guy too. Honest will set you free. Tell your boyfriend why you did it. If he loves you enough he will understand. Then you will have to work on the trust issue