beanzs
01-19-2005, 01:52 PM
Ok, long story short, I have been dating this guy for 7 months and livivng with him for 2 months now. We met online then two months into the relationship when I had seen things were working out I told him that I don't want any part of a relationship with someone who talks on yahoo messenger ( been there before in another relationship and it went bad because of it) anyways he said that is fine he has no need for it.
About a month ago I had noticed that he installed yahoo messenger on my computer (we both use mine) two different times and both times had deleated it off so that I wouldn't know, well when I found out I was very hurt and he had not been honest with me I had to bust him out on it. He said that he just wanted to "chat" with an old girl from on there but she wasn't on, well he had also looked at other girls profiles as well and he only fessed up when I told him that I knew about it. He said he wouldn't do it again, so I trusted him even though he had already put a dent in my trust.
On Sunday he went to his cleaning job, I normally go with but we weren't on the best terms so I stayed home. He was gone for four hours when it only takes one, so Monday my gutt told me to check his messenger (he had given me his password months before) and this is what I found.............Well it's been awhile... didn't think you'd get back to me.. it's cool... Why is living with this girl horrible?? lol sound bad ... Special guy... well I did, but things went rocky. Ooo still think of me... that's sweet I think about you... that's why i called you! talk to you later. bye! ~Melissa~
Put a blushing face after "Ooo still think of me" and put a tongue sticking out after "I think about you" She also put her # in the msg
When I confronted him about this he first said that he needed someone to talk to so he called an old guy friend but he never returned his call, then he switched it to well I needed a girls opinion. He did the one thing, the only thing I asked him not to do and he did it without a second thought. He has shattered my trust and broken my heart.
At first he was trying to talk his way out of it and then saying well it's no big deal then he became mean and on my way out the door he said " I hope you crash and die" He has now changed his password which makes him look even more suspicious I think anyways.
He has never even met this girl. I also told him that I cannot live with someone chatting online and he cannot give it up so it seems! So I guess his love for me was never even real huh?
He has never even met this girl. I also told him that I cannot live with someone chatting online and he cannot give it up so it seems! So I guess his love for me was never even real huh?
Help I need advice!! Thank you.
About a month ago I had noticed that he installed yahoo messenger on my computer (we both use mine) two different times and both times had deleated it off so that I wouldn't know, well when I found out I was very hurt and he had not been honest with me I had to bust him out on it. He said that he just wanted to "chat" with an old girl from on there but she wasn't on, well he had also looked at other girls profiles as well and he only fessed up when I told him that I knew about it. He said he wouldn't do it again, so I trusted him even though he had already put a dent in my trust.
On Sunday he went to his cleaning job, I normally go with but we weren't on the best terms so I stayed home. He was gone for four hours when it only takes one, so Monday my gutt told me to check his messenger (he had given me his password months before) and this is what I found.............Well it's been awhile... didn't think you'd get back to me.. it's cool... Why is living with this girl horrible?? lol sound bad ... Special guy... well I did, but things went rocky. Ooo still think of me... that's sweet I think about you... that's why i called you! talk to you later. bye! ~Melissa~
Put a blushing face after "Ooo still think of me" and put a tongue sticking out after "I think about you" She also put her # in the msg
When I confronted him about this he first said that he needed someone to talk to so he called an old guy friend but he never returned his call, then he switched it to well I needed a girls opinion. He did the one thing, the only thing I asked him not to do and he did it without a second thought. He has shattered my trust and broken my heart.
At first he was trying to talk his way out of it and then saying well it's no big deal then he became mean and on my way out the door he said " I hope you crash and die" He has now changed his password which makes him look even more suspicious I think anyways.
He has never even met this girl. I also told him that I cannot live with someone chatting online and he cannot give it up so it seems! So I guess his love for me was never even real huh?
He has never even met this girl. I also told him that I cannot live with someone chatting online and he cannot give it up so it seems! So I guess his love for me was never even real huh?
Help I need advice!! Thank you.