Sisters bf cheating still.....

[tidge]

Hi,

My sister and her bf have been together for years. I caught him cheatin on her and my mum and dad kicked him out of our house (because thats where he was living for the past two years for free :mad: ). Anyway i have caught him out three times now and his still doin it. He goes to cruises and thats where he meets girls. He is getting with some girl tomoro night and wednesday, he already snogged her last night while my sister was at home ill. My sister isnt speakin to me because i found him out last time and she doesnt want to believe it and he always lies to her and she believes him. She has chosen him all three times over our family now too. I don't know how to get it through to her to dump him because today he was talkin about dumpin her for this other girl when the time is right! I hate him for doing this to my sister and she isnt even speakin to me because of him. My mum and dad dont know how to tell her either. The way i found out was on a forum he goes on. I know his username and password and so i have been going on there watching him every now and then. I was wondering if i could get into trouble for goin into his account on this forum when i know his password. Sorry this is so long, i've tried to make it as short as possible ha. Please help and if anyone knows anything about computer law then please tell me if i'm still hackin :)

[smackie9]

Your sister is a big girl. She will have to deal with this herself. Time for you to stop stirring the pot and stay out of it. When the shit finally hits the fan, just be there to support her.

[Diablo]

Smackie is right, this will work out on its own. Also, there is no law against knowing someone's password. As long as you don't use that password to log onto his account, you should be okay.

[tidge]

:mad: Firslty I am NOT stirring any pot. I am making sure he isn't sleeping around behind her back and giving her STD'S! I'm afraid that she is gonna be hurt again like she was the first time he dumped her but this time i won't be there for her because i have warned her. It may sound nasty to you lot but i have given up caring now. She doesn't care that his cheatin on her then its no longer my problem i'm not interested anymore. If she wants to pretend it's not happening and protect him all the time, pay all his bills and give him money to go wine dine someone else because his a LOSER then i say let her. Let him dump her in the long run but i won't be there. She's gonna end up in debt like he is. She doesnt care that he said some hurtful things to me when i caught him out and he lied and she believed it so i don't care. Please don't post anything else because i dont want anyones help anymore and ill no longer be coming on this site because i didnt find comments helpful anyway. Thanks, this must be the worst help forum i have been on!

[smackie9]

We're sorry that we may have offended you. I'm not calling you a shit disturber either, that is not what I meant. You love and care for your sister very much, and I see that you are very angry and hurt by all this. Unfortunately she's doesn't want your help, even though your intentions are for her own benefit. That is why I suggested to let her figure out on her own. I'm just worried that with your involvement (trying to prevent her from further harm from this guy), that it's gonna cause your sister to really resent you and never talk to you again. You and your family could try an intervention as a last resort. If possible get her some counseling.

[SALly]

I wonder how old you two are? If she's real young then she may need some help. If she's 18 or older then you did what you could- now ease up. All you can do is tell your sister what you know. It's up to her what she chooses to do with the info. Get your own life though- stop hacking into the boyfriend's account- my god. That's risky, especially when it isn't even YOUR boyfriend. You can't just go around snooping and tracking everyone else's business. Honestly he can do whatever the heck he wants.

[Howard]

Hi,

My sister and her bf have been together for years. I caught him cheatin on her and my mum and dad kicked him out of our house (because thats where he was living for the past two years for free :mad: ). Anyway i have caught him out three times now and his still doin it. He goes to cruises and thats where he meets girls. He is getting with some girl tomoro night and wednesday, he already snogged her last night while my sister was at home ill. My sister isnt speakin to me because i found him out last time and she doesnt want to believe it and he always lies to her and she believes him. She has chosen him all three times over our family now too. I don't know how to get it through to her to dump him because today he was talkin about dumpin her for this other girl when the time is right! I hate him for doing this to my sister and she isnt even speakin to me because of him. My mum and dad dont know how to tell her either. The way i found out was on a forum he goes on. I know his username and password and so i have been going on there watching him every now and then. I was wondering if i could get into trouble for goin into his account on this forum when i know his password. Sorry this is so long, i've tried to make it as short as possible ha. Please help and if anyone knows anything about computer law then please tell me if i'm still hackin :)


What kind of computer law are you referring to? :confused:

[Rich]

Go on the forum and print out his posts, then give them to your sister. Don't tell her how you got them. Then have her confront her BF with them.

Sometimes in life all that you can do is let someone know something and then step back and let them do whatever it is that they want to do with the information. At some point step back and let your sister get hurt. Some people need to learn the hard way. She needs to wake up because you can't be protecting her all of your life. Give her the info and then step back.

[Howard]

So Tidge,How's everything with your Sister's boyfriend cheating?