Its over

[eightball61]

Thank You For Your Replies....

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What is up with these people who have faithful caring partners and take them for granted? There must be a full moon or something.

I'm sorry to hear about this. I thought that she may come to her senses this time.

I know it's hard when one person gives and gives, while all the other does is take.

When you leave it's sorta like punishment for them (that's not the exact term i'm looking for, but as close as I can get), because they haven't treated you well, but it's unfair because it also punishes you too, even though you were the one who tried so hard.

Looks like this wasn't a good week for either of us. I"ll be here if you need to chat.

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She may be upset, but this may be what she needed. Sometimes it takes action over talking in order to get your point acrossed.

She is young and upset, and that's probably why she threatened to kill herself. It's almost like a last resort in order to try and guilt you into staying. Nevertheless it does play on your consience. Don't let it get to you, no matter what the outcome, she will be fine in the long run.

You are being very good and patient with her. I hope someday she realizes this.

Like you said she needs to get her priorities straight, and then maybe the relationship will revive.

Just don't get guilted back into it. I've had that happen, and look where I am (not that she is even near as bad as mine). When and if you get back together, make sure it's what you both want and are both completely ready for.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY in advance!!!!!

Yea my birthday was in Oct, when he and I were going though the similar thing that we are now (but not quite as bad). By the time my b-day rolled around, we had started to get back together, but I still didn't see him, didn't talk to him for more than 2 mins, and didn't get as much as a card from him. That was tough.

No matter what she does for your b-day, you are still doing the right thing. It just stings a but more on special days.

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Hey! I hope you've had a good weekend. How is everything going?

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That's very true.

It's not a good idea, when faced with problems to think of all the positive things that you have done. All it will do is blind you of the problems at hand, and make it harder if things have to end.

I too did it. I went though pics of our vacations to Florida and Alberta. We were in the planning stages of going on another one. We have so many couple friends that I probably won't hang out with anymore, we had a house, and lived together, and fixed it up how we wanted it. I too got a promise ring. We talked about marraige, and kids. His family became just like my family. We even got tatoos together (luckily nothing that refers to the other).

It's sad to think of all of the good times, and now look where everything has gone. But that's life. You had good times with her, and good memories. There is nothing wrong with that.

Hopefully the two of you can make it work, because it seems that it's something you both want, just things have happened to put in blockades in the path. Even if it doesn't, you can still look back at all of those memories positivly. You had fun while it was happening.

You are ready to settle but it still make take years before she is ready. She is still very young. If you are sure that she is the one, then it's going to take accepting the fact that you have to wait for her to mature enough to be ready to have a life long committed relationship.

If it doesn't happen, trust me, there are so many woman out there looking for a guy who is honest & ready to settle. It's harder to find than most think.

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Then you are going the right thing. If things are going good for you at the time being, and you are happy how you two are progressing, then continue on that way.

:)

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I'll keep my fingers crossed for you Eightball.

I hope all works out for the best for you two, you deserve it.

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Pretty good, kinda Lazy, but nothing wrong with that once in awhile I guess.

Hung out with friends and went to a baby shower.

Yours?