help!!!

[spike238]

i'm 24 yrs old and have been dating a girl for 1 month. i really care for and think she actually may be the one even thought it's so early in the relationship. i know she has extremely strong feelings for me. well my friends took me out one night got me hammered. my friends and i went back to my place and they brought some girls back, i decided to go pass out, and a girl came in and took advantage of me, i don't know her name, what she looks like or even what really happened! i feel so guilty but am not sure what i should do. do i tell her? i just don't want to hurt her or hurt our relationship. this all happened about 4 days ago, and i've seen my girlfriend 4 times already. i'm not the same when i'm around her b/c of guilt. do i need to tell her? if i tell her what do i say? i do't know what even happened. my friends think i shouldn't tell her :confused:

[smackie9]

That's a tough one. Well you can do one of two things tell her now or let her find out later when she hears it from someone else. There's no predicting what will happen. Sure don't tell her, but how will you handle it when she does find out. She will not be able to trust you because you weren't honest with her. Two, when you tell her what happen, brace yourself, she gonna be pissed. But, once she cools down, she may forgive you. Good Luck :rolleyes: