Don't know what to think or do ?

[tecnochick]

Well here is my problem, i have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years and till about a year ago everything was fine. Until he started hanging around certin people. His whole attitude has changed towards me, he is always late. And when i call him on his cell his gives me some excuse and gets mad. I do my best not to yell at him but it is so hard :(. There is this girl that is at this place that he hangs around that i am kind of concerned about she is into all the same things as him. I am scared that maby he might leave me for her because they get along, and the fact that he says i am not attracted to him physically and that well i am a b**ch all the time. What do i say to him to make him listen to me and not leave me?

tecnochick

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What do i say to him to make him listen to me and not leave me? Some times, all the love in the world can not, will not and should not hold a relationship together. Do you really want to be with someone that does not want to be with you? If he is ‘not listening to you’ and is off doing his own thing, get a clue.











he says i am not attracted to him physically and that well i am a b**ch all the time. If you are not attracted to him AND you’re a , why are you there? Or did you mean he is not attracted to you? In that case, why are you still there?



leave me for her because they get along He wont be leaving because THEY get along, he will be leaving because YOU don’t get along…see next quote.



I do my best not to yell at him but it is so hard He is not a dog. If you are angry, upset or irritated you might want to look at your expectations. It is not his job, duty or destiny to live up to your wants, needs or expectations.



His whole attitude has changed towards me, he is always late Being late can be a sign of disrespect. Some people just cant stay with the clock. If he is showing a pattern of disrespect, why would you stay with him with all the other things going on?



In my book it is “treat me right or I will find someone that will.”