The wife always wins

[MeOrYourMother]

"they never leave the wife" is true.

What is it about unhappy marriage, huh?

I had my heart broken, many times, by one married then separated then divorced then remarried to the same woman man.

He made me feel like a goddess. I really thought that he wanted me, had waited forme, and was free for me.

He isn't happy with her, but there is a child involved, and he wants to be a family until the child is grown.

Ugh. I don't know what I want to say. I'm hurt, angry, embarrased... I wasn't exactly the "other woman" because we never got physical until the separation, but he actually went back! And got remarried to her!!!!

I know that I am the one who looks like the bad guy. I'm the affair. But dammit, why can't men make up their mind. I hate that he had his cake and ate it too.

[smackie9]

Whoa! Never date men that are in a relationship. Married men or involved men always go back and leave you behind. I've done the same thing once.....and that was enough. Find yourself a nice lonely single guy. He'll appreciate you and treat you right. Make sure he doesn't have any baggage.;)

[justanotherwife]

He isn't happy with her
yeah yeah so he said huh?

Yep me too Smackie- once and only once.
Must have been the same guy - sounds like the same line of crap I got shot LOL!

Take Smackie's advice- you will be glad you did.

p.s. should mr unhappy call and wish to make you the cake again, tell him you are on a diet.
If they cheat with you, you can bet they will cheat on you.
Play you both like a fine fiddle.
Bet on it.