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srt4banger
12-04-2006, 09:11 PM
well ive been dating my new girlfriend since sept. and i know the holidays are coming up fast. but the first time i laid eyes on her i knew she was the one. i had to have her. if you've ever had that feeling you know what im talking about. but anyways i love her with all of my heart and i wanted to get something to show her that. well dec. 22 will be our 3 month and then with chrismas right around the corner i wanted to get her something nice. i know she likes jewelry so i decided to go with a promise ring. i know i know. i think its kinda early too but for me the promise ring that i got her i spent 200. to me it tells her that im commited to her and her only, that i will love her till she stops loving me and that i want to be together for as long as she'll put up with me. did i do the right thing in getting it for her??? like i said ive had mixed reactions and im going to explain to her what i think it means coming from me, but i dont want her to freak out. she tells me loves me and all the good stuff. i love the girl to death and i just have a feeling we'll be together for awhile!!!!

Rich
12-05-2006, 06:08 PM
Well, if you're on target with your feelings for her and hers for you, then why would you have to explain anything? Or why would it scare her.

On the other hand if she totally freaks or withdraws from you, then you know that her feelings for you aren't quite on the same level as yours for her.

Better you know now.

Howard
12-05-2006, 07:13 PM
What's the purpose of you getting a "promise ring" for her,Do you think you're going to stay committed with her for a long time to come? Maybe you might change your mind in the future.:confused: