The love of my life.

[Irishflyer]

Hello everyone, im really hoping someone could help me here. A great love of mine, for a year and almost 4 months just broke up with me last saturday. I'm only a teenager and i dont want to sound like a dramatic whiner, im not, im very serious about this, and im very serious about her. On that saturday, we are both 15, she went to a hockey game with her, friend, at that hockey game her and an older guy, 18 maybe 19 started talking, and it lead to kissing i guess, he started it, but she accepted and kissed back she says, and then she broke up with me. She says she needs some time alone to see what else is out there, all of the sudden. One day was normal, saying we love eachother, then the next, everything changed after that, in a split second. I still think there might be somethere there though. We spent the best times together and we said the most deep things i have ever heard. I did everything i could do during our year + to make her happy and i didnt do anything wrong for her to break up with me, it was just for that reason. Now since we've been broken up, i have too say, there is no doubt about it, im very in love with her, i share my best memories in life with her, no exageration. I love here with all my heart, and i really mean it. I've been trying my very hardest for get things back to normal, to our everyday routine and for her to love me again, our relationship was basically my life, and i would do anything for this girl, and ive been trying to tell her that. But she seems to get more and more mad every time i try to tell her or get her back, she says she just needs her space but im affraid of losing her for good. Is there any way any of you could help me get her back, any advice or anything, i love her so much, i couldnt stand to not be with her again, ive spent my passed over a week doing nothing but thinking about her...and i know, she was everything to me before, now i know shes even more than that now shes gone, i know i love her, and im pretty sure this is meant to be. Please take me seriously, i am being completly serious. I love this girl and would do anything for her, please, someone help me.


Paul

[Missa]

I understand how hard it is for you, but if she wanted to be with you, she wouldn't be acting the way she is. I'm not saying she doesn't love you, but maybe because she is only 15, she is too scared or feels too young to be commited. Probably all of her friends are chasing boys and dating many guys and she wants to be doing the same thing.

I suggest that you don't talk to her about it since it gets her mad. If you guys are truly meant to be, things will work out. She obviously wants to be free for a while, and maybe that other guy made her realize she was in your relationship for all the wrong reasons. I hope you two can work things out. Good Luck. :)

[Irishflyer]

Thank you missa for your fast reply, i appreciate it, i need a lot of help to say the least with my loss :( You dont think i could do anything in my own power to have her love me again, besides just let things go the way there going, honestly? I'm not sure if this is all a game, she can be wierd sometimes, im sure all girls can, it seems shes also playing the jealousy game, we see eachother an awful lot, confermation class, school... Ah it stinks, and hurts an awful lot, i wish there was something i could do to get her back, i really love her.

[eightball61]

I know you love her but she stepped our the boundries to a relationship. This guy is not a good guy being 19 and leading a 15 yr old to kissing. He will not care for her like you have. You can't change her heart though. She is still young and wants to explore the world of dating. Its better you both are broken up than her staying with you and doing this all the time.

You are still 15 though and have many years of dating left. I don't know what the future holds out for you both but hopefully something does pan out where you do find someone like her again to love and hold.