Her Ex's Help please

[tomaaron]

Hi

I need help ive been going out with my gf for 5 months now shes the one and she says im the one so all is perfect im 19 shes 18

but ...

shes the first ever person ive had with and im her 5th

she has been throught hard times i asked her about all her exs and wanted to know about throught an argement that we have had (the only one we have had) she sleep with a guy after getting drunk while playin strip poker. and other occasions simular

point is i cant stop imaging it and i really love her and it makes me really upset when i think about it and the forts wont go what can i do?

Aaron

[smackie9]

Ah yes, your gf's past. Well, you are just going to have to get over it. She can't change what she did and who she did it with in the past. That's where it all is....in the past. You are the here and now in her life. That kind of stuff is easily forgotten, so why can't you forget about it? I myself don't dwell on who I did it with in my past. I could care less. It's who I'm with now, is who I think about. And I know she feels the same way. It's hard because you are so in love and the mere thought of her being with another man is devastating. Shake off those thoughts.....she's with you now and loves you. Those guys are the furthest thing from her mind.