im really stuck :(

[batouttahell527]

ok, so there is this girl im dating, rachel, and she we have been dating for about 2 months now, and she is absolutely crazy over me. But the problem is, i dont feel the same feelings for her as i did when we started dating. This is where i am really stuck, she has already said that we are going to the winter dance, which I was not going to go to. I can tell that she is really in to me and i cant say that i feel the same way about her, i liked it better when we were friends. But anyway, i want to break up with her but i really dont know how, or what to do because she is really sensitive and i dont want to hurt her. but i really need to get out of this relationship because it is constantly nagging me now and affecting my work at school. i really dont want to hurt her but i want to break up with her. I really dont know what to do.:confused: :(

If anyone could give me any advice about what to do i woould be forever greatful.

[smackie9]

What you just wrote there is what you should tell her. Of course she's going to be hurt, it's inevitable. Letting her think everything is ok is way worse. Stop being a coward and tell her the truth.....this will prove to be very valuable information for future break ups. You would want to know the truth wouldn't you if you were in her position? It sucks but it's gonna happen anyways.

[Howard]

So you just want to stay friends instead of being boyfriend girlfriend?