This isn't really about my boyfriend and me, but my best friend. First of all, every time I have had boyfriend, she gets jealous. I have alway been respectful to her and her boyfriends in the past but never get the same respect. So over the years, I finally found my "perfect boyfriend." I have confronted her about her fits that she throws b'c she was jealous of my boyfriend, but she doesn't come through to me. I find time to spend with her until I couldn't stand how disrespectful she talks about my boyfriend. We have been friends for almost 10 years. She should be happy that I found someone who makes me happy. I cherish it, but I think she has turned into the "annoying best friend." Has anyone ever faced this? I am 23. Is it time to move away from this friend?
Howard
06-11-2007, 09:42 AM
In What way is she annoying?
LaurienMarc
06-11-2007, 10:58 PM
I Need Some Advise From Someone Who Can Give Me Some Good Advise, I Am In A 2 Year And 4 Months Relationship, With A Guy And We Just Recently Had A Baby So Basically We Are A Family, It Seems As Days Go By Things Get Worse And Worse With Us, I Continue Thinkin I Am The Problem, But When I Sit Down And Think, Its Him The Problem, U Cant Joke Around With Him, You Can Say Certain Things To Him, Basically He Gets Angered Easily, And Is Easily Bothered, In The Begining We Had Alot Of Problems, He Didnt Trust Me In Fact He Didnt Trust Girls He Was Hurt In The Past, And He Held It Again All Girls That We Were The Same, I Proved To Him I Wasnt The Same That I Was A Loyal Independent Female, And That All I Was Lookin For Was A Happy Loving Relationship, But Lately Everything Gets Him Mad, At The Current Moment He Isnt Working A Permanent Job He Is Doing Temp Jobs , So Maybe This Is Why He Is So Angry, But I Been Told Him To Get A Job And He Doesnt Make Any Effort, We Been Together For 2 Years He Has Treated Me Good In Those 2 Years But He Also Has Treated Me Very Badly, At Times He Always Calls Me An Idiot, And Stupid, At Times I Am Afraid To Tell Him Anythin In Fear That He Might Get Mad At Me, I Love Him So Much, But At Times I Feel So Unappreciated, And Taken For Granted, I Do Not Treat Him Bad If Anythin I Have Been Puttin Him First B4 Me, Now Its My Daughter Who Comes First And Still With That I Put Myself Last, How Can You Tell Someone I Love You And Yet Alone Your The Mother Of Their Child And Have Them Treat You So Bad, I Am Under The Impession That Maybe He Just Wants Out And Is Treating Me Like This So I Leave, In The 2 Years We Been Together He Has Not Taken Me Out To Dinner Nor Has Gotten Me Any Flowers At Times I Feel I Dont Get A Sign Of Appreciation For Nothing Its Like I Do Do Do And I Get Nothin Really In Return, I Am Not Saying He Is Fully A Bad Guy Because When He Has Money He Does Give Me What I Need, But I Feel He Is More A Mean Person Than A Loving Person At Times, And I Do Not Know What To Do, I Want Us To Remain A Family For My Daughters Sake, But My Fear Is Will He End Up Cheatin On Me Or Will He End Up Doing Something That Will Hurt Me I Am Stuck I Do Not Know What Do To
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