Lying

[athomas]

Okay this is a possible serious situation...

My current girlfriend lied to me about something. I asked her in the beginning if she was clean (STD's and whatnot) She said she was, but a few days ago she came out and told me she has HPV. I haven't noticed anything that is consistant with those symptoms, but I'm not sure if I should continue seeing her or not.

Any suggestions as to what I should do???

[draconis]

Approximately 20 million people are currently infected with HPV. At least 50 percent of ually active men and women acquire genital HPV infection at some point in their lives. By age 50, at least 80 percent of women will have acquired genital HPV infection. About 6.2 million Americans get a new genital HPV infection each year.

Most people who have a genital HPV infection do not know they are infected. The virus lives in the skin or mucous membranes and usually causes no symptoms. Some people get visible genital warts, or have pre-cancerous changes

She may not have known at all.

draconis

[athomas]

ohh she knew, her ex husband cheated on her and gave it to her, she found out by getting it that he cheated on her. she lied in the beginning and couldn't explain why she lied to me.

Guess I should have been more clear, my apologies.

[draconis]

ohh she knew, her ex husband cheated on her and gave it to her, she found out by getting it that he cheated on her. she lied in the beginning and couldn't explain why she lied to me.

Guess I should have been more clear, my apologies.

None needed. She lied about a matter that could effect your health. That was wrong of her, period.

You need to educate yourself on this and decide if this is a deal breaker for you. She broke your trust and could have or did infect you.

draconis

[Howard]

I mean it's up to you if you want to see her or not.
But why would she lie to you about it? :confused:

[draconis]

I mean it's up to you if you want to see her or not.
But why would she lie to you about it? :confused:

Embarrassed, shame, afraid to lose someone.

draconis

[Rich]

I think that anyone who lies and purposefully puts someone else life or health in danger is a low life.

She had NO right to risk your health and you should be PISSED.

This girl held no regard for your health and put it at risk. and you're asking if you should stay with her? Give her another chance????

The girl is lucky you don't toss her a beating before you kick her ass to the curb.

[Rich]

Wow! That was my 1500 post.

[draconis]

I think that anyone who lies and purposefully puts someone else life or health in danger is a low life.

She had NO right to risk your health and you should be PISSED.

This girl held no regard for your health and put it at risk. and you're asking if you should stay with her? Give her another chance????

The girl is lucky you don't toss her a beating before you kick her ass to the curb.

What he said without the violence.

draconis

[draconis]

Wow! That was my 1500 post.

Congrats on your post count.

draconis

[Howard]

Embarrassed, shame, afraid to lose someone.

draconis



Then that person might get infected too,Don't you think? :confused:

[Jamaicangirl]

Okay this is a possible serious situation...

My current girlfriend lied to me about something. I asked her in the beginning if she was clean (STD's and whatnot) She said she was, but a few days ago she came out and told me she has HPV. I haven't noticed anything that is consistant with those symptoms, but I'm not sure if I should continue seeing her or not.

Any suggestions as to what I should do???What if it was HIV or AIDS she was infected with buddy?

First thing you do when you are in a relationship that you plan to have unprotected with the partner, is both of you go to the lab and do tests to make sure you are both ok. Do you think any one would say with delight "oh yes...I have this disease, this virus, this one too and that one?" nope, in the future please get your answers from the lab instead from a partner. I know this sounds like I cant trust, but hey, your health comes first if or when you know you are 100 % healthy and cant say the same for anyone else.

[draconis]

I have to agree a lab or clinic is the best way to go.

draconis