Everyone Please Read...i Need Opinions!

[cep164]

Okay so I need everyones help on this.

My girlfriend and I went on a break about two weeks ago. The reason being stress, distance (3 hours drive) and money. She suggested that we dont talk so we appreciate each other more. We finall talk on Christmnas day, well night since it was 11pm. We just talk about alot of things and she says she "doesnt want to ignore me anymore and wants to still talk everyday."

The next night we talked again for a little while and then she told me to call tomorrow. I called her the next day at work to find her in a bad mood. She tells me how her friend "made fun of her" for "not being able to keep a boyfriend"

She then said how pissed off it made her. Which reminded me how Sarah (classmate), who I saw at the bar, pissed me off. My ex hates Sarah because Sarah is "slutty" and flirtacious, even when she knew I had a girlfriend. So I saw Sarah at the bar and she was drunk as hell. She was annoying and was calling my ex a "" and a "" Of course I defended my ex because I still love her. Eventually I took Sarah's phone, called her mom to come pick her up to get her out of the bar. She was going to get kicked out anyway. When I told my ex the story she said "I cant fking believe you, anyone who is going to insult me should be left on the corner to rot. Dont do them a favor, thats fking bullshit!"

Then she hung up on me and ignored me for another 3 days until New Years when she called to tell me how I "lost her for good" because I proved that "I dont love her because I helped her enemy and did them a favor" and that I am "so mean for hurting her by helping Sarah."

So now we are officially over, because I defended my ex then got rid of the girl....

I understand that I shouldnt even had said anything (then none of this would be happening) but Im honest, and if I even thought I did something wrong, then why would I have said anything at all?

So my question is......

A. Did I REALLY do something wrong?
B. Does this sound crazy to anyone other than myself?


If you think shes right, please state why!


and no Im not 13, this situation is between a 22 year old female (ex) and 23 year old male (me)....drama never seems to leave, ya know?


I NEED AS MANY OPINIONS AS POSSIBLE

[draconis]

You were being a nice guy.

She seems immature.

Find someone that acts their age and you will not have the drama.

draconis

[eightball61]

So now we are officially over,



Trust me when I say this....."Keep it this way".

[Rich]

In life, always take the high road. As said already, you were just being nice.

As also said, your ex GF is immature. Look on for someone else and leave this girl. Life isn't about drama all the time as it gets tiring. If your ex needs the drama, and trust me, some girls do, then just move on if it's not what you're into.

[Sugarcoatedsour]

Anyone who has been in a relationship knows that women can be a tad moody at times. For the most part, this may involve her getting angry at you, wanting to be alone, whatever. If she’s threatening to break up with, that’s where I’d draw the line. She seems to be taking a piss with your emotions. I don’t think you did anything wrong, but clearly she’s too immature to handle the relationship you want.

As the others suggested, take this opportunity to cut the cord.

[ChillGuyFl]

seems like she is acting irrational to me, many girls tend to think irrationally though.