Another confusing problem...

[HelphelpPLZ]

This is concerning my last post about breaking up with her and all that... i find myself very jealous when i know she's out with her friends now.. i don't want to be but i just feel really jealous even mad. i don't want ot feel that way but i can't help it. i've considered trying to get back together with her.. but i don't think i want to do that and convince myself not to. I'm almost 100% positive things would be fine once i have a job to go to but i don't have many options considering i have very bad self esteem probs as well as anxiety probs... and my injured hand is giving me trouble because i have docotrs orders not to do many things so that's not helping things...

[eightball61]

The jealous could have been triggered by the amount of times you have broken up. Your mind may feel insecure because you know things are rocky and you dont want to lose her but when she is out and you both are not dating she can meet with someone and you should be going out to. You can't be holdng her back with anything because she has a life also of her own.

This very well does conclude to your other topic and I did post my thoughts in there. You need to figure out the true values of this relationship and go from there. Insecurities are tough but going back off and on with someone is not helping you out at all.