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Surgeon2B
03-01-2008, 07:33 PM
OK, for the guys...how many of you WANT your girlfriend/wife/fiance to have plastic surgery procedures? Share you stories!

For the ladies...how many of you WANT plastic surgeries for yourself, but your boyfriend/husband/fiance don't want you to have them? Share you stories....

The reason I'm posting this is because I WANT my GF to get liposuction and breast augmentation done! My GF's face is absolutely gorgeous, but her body has taken a toll due to her pregnancy! Now 9 months postpartum later, her tits are a bit droopy and has lost mass and she has excess "energy stores" around her hips, buttocks, and circumferential thighs.

The crazy thing is that she is very interested in the procedures as well, but hesitant to go through with it because of work schedule and the demand of the 9 month old baby. We've gone to couple of consultations already and we know exactly what is involved. I completely understand her reasons for not getting this done now, but OH MY GOD, if she has a boob job and some lipo, SHE WOULD BE a perfect 10 in my eyes (she's a 9.9 right now)!!! Do I need that 0.1 score....NO, would I like it...HELL YES!

I know these are sensitive issues and women shouldn't do these procedures for their men, but god, I want my girl to have these procedures done NOW!!!

BTW, I am willing to fork out the entire bill (>$10K) for her procedures no questions asked if she wanted it! I know she eventually will get these procedures done, but it may be years until she's ready! I guess people do say, "good things come to those who waits"!

Disclaimer: Yes, I'm superficial and I love big fake boobs!

Comments please!
goingthroughit
03-02-2008, 12:15 AM
is that safe for her though? you have to consider the pros and cons in getting those surgeries. but there are a lot of other things more important than physical features... so try to focus on other stuff before you get to anxious of the thought of her being a perfect 10. she should already be one in your eyes... :)
Lamprey2
04-11-2008, 09:26 PM
Why don't you talk to her about hitting the gym? Better yet, go with her (unless you look like a hollywood star?). Surgery will probably only be a short-term solution, if she put on weight once then she will again.

I wouldn't keep trying to convince the poor girl that she needs surgery. It's invasive and there's always risk. I'd feel too selfish, and too shallow. Not to mention having her BF tell her such things doesn't help her self-esteem. Think about how she feels, now about how you do.
Howard
04-11-2008, 09:33 PM
How much do you think this plastic surgery would cost her?:confused:
eightball61
04-11-2008, 11:35 PM
Why don't you talk to her about hitting the gym? Better yet, go with her (unless you look like a hollywood star?). Surgery will probably only be a short-term solution, if she put on weight once then she will again.

I wouldn't keep trying to convince the poor girl that she needs surgery. It's invasive and there's always risk. I'd feel too selfish, and too shallow. Not to mention having her BF tell her such things doesn't help her self-esteem. Think about how she feels, now about how you do.

I agree & welcome to the boards :)
HappaGirl
04-20-2008, 11:08 PM
So many times cosmetic surgery like this leads to depression.
Please, consider the psychological ramifications before you push this, too hard.
Also- how will her body adjust to the healing process while a relatively new baby is in her life and needing her?
Going to the gym will help to boost her serotonin levels and help to minimize the depression she is currently experiencing- just make sure that the exercise is for her health and not her trying to please you.
I think you are doing a good job of loving her the way she is.
WonderWoman
04-20-2008, 11:55 PM
Sounds like an awfully big list of "fixes". Exercise and a good diet works wonders, maybe consider surgery in a few years to address any minor areas that don't respond to working out.

Remember, once those fat cells are removed any additional calories will be socked away in the remaining fat tissue. Which means her perfect face may suddenly become pudgy, and she could get "fat" in places she never was before. So get exercise and diet under control first, so there won't be any unpleasant surprises.
Howard
04-21-2008, 10:56 AM
Maybe plastic surgery isn't the way to go,It gets expensive.