jenrobsdad
03-08-2008, 07:33 AM
Hello...
I have posted several threads about my former gf and I. It all finally came to a head last Tuesday evening. We were all stressed from moving into a house. Her son and her got into it and her son slapped her. (He is 18) She was exremly upset and then her son said he was going to go live with his dad along with his younger sister. I walked into all this and was not as supportive as she wanted me to be. She said it was over, and that her son and I was to get out of her life. She later checked herself into a hospital on a 72 hour suicide hold. She is still there. I spoke with her this evening. She did npt hang up on me as I expected her to. She was very quiet. I asked her if she still loved me. She said that she did not ever want me in her life. I asked again and she said "i dunno" I asked her if she thought we could ever see each other again at all, again "i dunno" She did not want me to visit her at all. She is very scared that when she gets out not only will she not have a home, but her kids for the first time will be living with their dad 80 miles away. She also said that they will be keeping her longer than the 72 hours. She then had to go. I asked if I could call again, once again "I dunno' I said I love you and she said nothing and hung up. Her sister said the family feels she has Bi polar and she is just not thinking. What should I do? I still want her in my life so much. I want to regain her trust. We were living together for 3 1/2 years and it was a very intense relationship.
I have posted several threads about my former gf and I. It all finally came to a head last Tuesday evening. We were all stressed from moving into a house. Her son and her got into it and her son slapped her. (He is 18) She was exremly upset and then her son said he was going to go live with his dad along with his younger sister. I walked into all this and was not as supportive as she wanted me to be. She said it was over, and that her son and I was to get out of her life. She later checked herself into a hospital on a 72 hour suicide hold. She is still there. I spoke with her this evening. She did npt hang up on me as I expected her to. She was very quiet. I asked her if she still loved me. She said that she did not ever want me in her life. I asked again and she said "i dunno" I asked her if she thought we could ever see each other again at all, again "i dunno" She did not want me to visit her at all. She is very scared that when she gets out not only will she not have a home, but her kids for the first time will be living with their dad 80 miles away. She also said that they will be keeping her longer than the 72 hours. She then had to go. I asked if I could call again, once again "I dunno' I said I love you and she said nothing and hung up. Her sister said the family feels she has Bi polar and she is just not thinking. What should I do? I still want her in my life so much. I want to regain her trust. We were living together for 3 1/2 years and it was a very intense relationship.