Allow My G/f To Strip Or Not, Advise Please!

[TheOne]

Hi, I'm new to this so please correct me if I do anything wrong.
Well, let me start off by stating the problem. I'm a 17 year old and I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years, she is also 17. Lately my girlfriend has been wanting a car but her parents will not buy it for her, so she has been thinking about becoming a dancer at a non club until she has enough for her car. She wants to start as soon as she turns 18 which is in May. I know I can trust her, we've been together 2 years and we love eachother. I also have no problem with her wearing revealing clothes because usually in the summer, it's me who suggests she wears little tight clothes. But in this situation I dont know whether I should let her (be ok with it or not) I mean, I know she can easily get the job because she's attractive and has a nice body and face. What would you guys do? If you trusted your g/f and she wanted to dance?

[Showtime32]

This is a tough one, it depends on how you would deal with it. I think in the beginning you would except it. In the long run, its might hurt the relationship. Its really going to be on how you will deal with it on a personal level...

[TheOne]

I agree it is a tough one. But I trust her enough to let her show herself (which isnt even gonna be ) its a nonudity club. I think In the beginning I would be a little jealous at sooo many guys looking at my girlfriend dancing or walking around in a little thong, a tiny top (or no top), and high heals, but I would be ok with it cuz they can only look. Plus its only gonna be for about 6 weeks if she decided to be a non exotic dancer / tail server when she turns 18.

[TheOne]

Is it me or does this forum suck...no ones seems to be posting anything. I need advice. I posted the same problem on a different forum at the same time as I did here and I already got like 30 replies.. this forum sucks

[Uncopyrightable]

so please correct me if I do anything wrong.

It is considered bad form to criticize a forum you have just joined. Some one might think you’re self absorbed…

I dont know whether I should let her (be ok with it or not) Sounds like you don’t like her decisions. You are not her owner. Your only responsibility is to be supportive and to help her make the best decision she can FOR HER SELF.



Her choosing to work in the industry is a huge responsibility. There is money to be made up on stage. A few bucks, some times. The real money is made on the floor, working the customers, ‘clients’. And that means bump and grind. Everybody loves a pretty face, but, the money only comes when she works up a sweat to get some guy off. Which is great when it is her 17 year old, cute boyfriend. How is she (I really mean YOU) going to feel about some forty-fifty year old fat freak that smells bad who is going to blow a thousand bucks on somebody, anybody, that gets him off but only the way the 'client' wants...

Thats a lot of money walking away when she is 'only' on stage.


Have ‘her’ do some research, start here



http://www.iusw.org/ Check here (http://www.iusw.org/)




Then, there is always just getting a job, like everybody ells...

[Uncopyrightable]

http://www.iusw.org/

[TheOne]

Anyone else got any opinions or comments? The more advice I get...the better.