Wasting My Time??

[Feeling Alone]

Hello everyone I am new to this site and was wondering if I could get some advice, me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months now I love him very much but these issues keep coming up and I dont know what to do about them, we are very different like night and day im a city girl and he is a country boy, He likes to be out 4 wheeling in the Jeeps going out to the river he never likes to stay home even when he we are home he will be outside doing somthing and me on the other hand I like going out and doing things but there are times that I just want to stay home and relax he doesnt understand. Another issue with us is that he likes to hang around his friends 24/7 I can understand hanging out with them a few hours on the weekend, but he wants them around all the time. I dont feel comfortable around some of his friends they think that me and my bf are way to different to be together and im beginning to think the same thing. Alot of issues for just one post SORRY. But here are my main questions.

Am I being childish about not wanting his friends around 24/7?

Should I hang around with his friends that make me uncomfortable just to make him happy?

Do you think that we are to different to make our relationship work?:confused:

[Rich]

#3.

He's a square peg and you're a round hole. Look for somebody that's more compatible to you.

[smackie9]

You are not compatable. Compatability is so vital to keep a relationship going strong. Sorry dear but you are at a cross roads. He is very happy the way his life is. To make him change to suit your needs will only make him unhappy. You are obviously unhappy or you wouldn't be here. The hash reality is that it ain't workin out. If you wish to find true happiness, it's gonna be with someone else I'm afraid.

[Feeling Alone]

Thank you, I agree. I have told him that several times and he insists that us being different is what makes our relationship great but your right im not happy. Thanks a bunch for your advice.

[smackie9]

The only reason he seems to think everything is ok, is because you have been letting him do what he wants. You haven't really put any demands on him. If you would have been more aggressive with him he'd be saying "I can't stand that miserable . All she does is complain!"