countryboi
02-28-2005, 06:07 AM
Hey, this is my first post here. i've read some stories similiar to my case but i'd really like an opinion to fit my circumstances... because they're quite a few. Thanks in advance to whomever can help me out!
I'm an 18 yr old college student who goes to ohio state. I hang out with a group of about 10 to 15 people. Around 2 months ago I started to really get to know one of the girls well. She would compliment me on occasion and i would smile and thank her. As the past two months have progressed we've been seeing a lot of each other just sittin around conversating about anything that can come to mind. We watched a lot of movies together and segreated ourselves from the group when hanging out to talk to each other.
As of right now, and around 1 month ago, I began to become intrested in her as more than friends, but after seeing her turn a guy down right after he said, "I really like you a lot" i am extremely hesitant to let her know how i feel. Yet i feel that it is implied that i like her because we are really flirtous; however, she has two other guys who are into her. They are both decent competition, but she is overall confused about everything.
She's told me a lot of things about who she likes and what she wants in a guy. They kinda lean toward my personality and how our friendship fits her description, but not directly. She says she expects two people in a relationship to have the foundation of a friendship before moving on. I've been thinking about asking her to come home with me for a weekend, because i have to drive back bymyself to college and i'd really like someone to talk to.
My questions are... The anatomy of our relationship is strictly friends right now but i believe affection is implied. So what should i do to progress things? I've witnessed being straightforward is a turnoff to her... so my conclusion as of now is time.
And is it too early to ask this friend back to my home, because she's never been to my state or experienced "country culture." And could it be taken as more serious than wanted as in "Mom this is my mate for life" type of obligation, because i really just want to get to know her better, while she sees where i come from and how i lived back home.
I'm an 18 yr old college student who goes to ohio state. I hang out with a group of about 10 to 15 people. Around 2 months ago I started to really get to know one of the girls well. She would compliment me on occasion and i would smile and thank her. As the past two months have progressed we've been seeing a lot of each other just sittin around conversating about anything that can come to mind. We watched a lot of movies together and segreated ourselves from the group when hanging out to talk to each other.
As of right now, and around 1 month ago, I began to become intrested in her as more than friends, but after seeing her turn a guy down right after he said, "I really like you a lot" i am extremely hesitant to let her know how i feel. Yet i feel that it is implied that i like her because we are really flirtous; however, she has two other guys who are into her. They are both decent competition, but she is overall confused about everything.
She's told me a lot of things about who she likes and what she wants in a guy. They kinda lean toward my personality and how our friendship fits her description, but not directly. She says she expects two people in a relationship to have the foundation of a friendship before moving on. I've been thinking about asking her to come home with me for a weekend, because i have to drive back bymyself to college and i'd really like someone to talk to.
My questions are... The anatomy of our relationship is strictly friends right now but i believe affection is implied. So what should i do to progress things? I've witnessed being straightforward is a turnoff to her... so my conclusion as of now is time.
And is it too early to ask this friend back to my home, because she's never been to my state or experienced "country culture." And could it be taken as more serious than wanted as in "Mom this is my mate for life" type of obligation, because i really just want to get to know her better, while she sees where i come from and how i lived back home.