See girl your dating with another guy

[ChillGuyFl]

Ok I had a similar thread here about a year ago. I have been dating this girl a couple of weeks so far, we have not done anything ual. Kissing holding hands etc..

She actually ended up being in a different place that she said she would be last night, and she went to the area I was going to be in.

Randomly I run into her by chance, she is wasted and apparently hanging on some guy she has known for a couple of months. I talked to her briefly told her I had texted her, since she wanted me to hang out with her after I was done with my friends. I asked how long they known each other, and just stated I needed to find my friends and walked away abruptly.

We aren't official, I don't really have the right to dictate what she does. Seeing her out with some other dude right after I was with her earlier just throws me through a loop. I don't think I will be talking to her anytime soon. I would imagine this would be much harder if I had been involved ually and dating for a couple of months. This isn't really much of an issue at this point, but I just want some opinions or similar experiences you guys can share.

[smackie9]

Some girls just like a lot of attention...add alcohol and you get instant slut.:p

[Howard]

Maybe that girl you were seeing was cheating on you.Some people aren't meant to be.

[speeksthetruth]

ouch that sucks man but better u knew early than later. i havnt caught someone i dated dating someone else before, but a chick i dated in HS i dated for over a year cheated on me with another guy from a different high school. i was good friends with everyone i knew at my high school and my ex that cheated on me was hated on by many. most of her good friends actually be-friended her because i was also good friends with her friends. safe to say she regretted it and tried to come back to me. thats one thing i dont forgive. i dont see how hard it is for women (and men) to just break up with you before you go out and screw around.

[Howard]

i dont see how hard it is for women (and men) to just break up with you before you go out and screw around.


Sometimes women don't show much fidelity,they can't stay true without screwing around with some other guy.Maybe it's best to just stay single,women only cause pain and heartache!:mad:

[Karma]

I don't think this girl is a slut. I think you are jumping the gun. She wasn't kissing, hugging or being ual with this guy ( or you for the matter). She was drunk and probably doesn't remember any of this. You seem to be way more into her and what she is doing than she is with you. Find out if you both want the same things and if not find someone who wants the same things as you.

[smackie9]

It's all about maturity and being able to make proper choices. She obviously is a type of person that makes bad ones. She is not ready mature wise to even have a serious relationship. She is not a slut by nature, I'm saying she becomes one from her drinking. It doesn't look very good on her.

[Rich]

Was she shocked to see you? How did she act when you saw her? Did she stammer and try to lie about things, or did she just not care about what you thought?

If you weren't exclusive, then it is what it is. You can either accept, or just drop her and move on. Normally I would say to stay and nail her as much as you can before leaving, but I'd be worried about STDs and such. She seems to be a "player".