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Nedlam
03-04-2005, 02:57 AM
hello there PPLS, just after advice on a few situations. I find my self snap at my GF and i tell my self its because i dont get want i want to do. I have a web site and a interest in parrots. B4 we meet, this was my life. I enjoyed it but now its become to much trouble and no interest like before.
I also have lost a lot of sales and used to have strong recomendations from ppls about my birds and it made me happy. Now its quiet and havent had the heart for it, i've taken the boxes out and no alow them to breed.
On my web site, i rebulit it but i still want to add a lot of content, but time? She gives me time but it comes with distractions and how can some one concertrate this way.
I have lost a lot of enery with my sickness of over active thyroids. I have had 3 opperations to correct this and now on madication as it under due to all of it being removed. This has affected a lot of relation ships in the way of motivation, tied and iritable.
I used to be able cycle 80Kms easy, but now, cant even get to the end of the street.
I just feel like i dont get a chance to do what i want, but approcing the GF i get told theres plenty of time for me. But i'm busy with other things.
Ex. i goto work at 6, she'll be up 9ish. work at 1. i'm home at 5 getting T ready by the time she walks in at 6.20. We eat, i clear and maybe watch TV with her but she tied by 9 and bed, i'm in bed soon after?

Please help me with a few problems.

eightball61
03-05-2005, 01:20 PM
The recent stress could be coming from everything that us currently happening to you. I process didability claims and from what customers have told be about thyroids they can trigger personality if they are off wacked. I will prey though that these upcoming surgries can correct the problem for you and you'll be be able to get back to normal.

As for your relationship though you girlfriend should be a little more understanding than she has been. Its been hard for you and you dot mean to flip out but its unconcrolled. Have you spoken to her what the effects are? its really hard to say for sure how to get her to understand but maybe supply her a little more knowledge about what you are going through so you both can work through this together.