Advice

[Thabiso]

Hi, i'm 28 and my girlfriend is also 28, we've been dating for almost 3 years now, there was a stage when we decided to get married but then we decided the time was not right as we were not ready. Through out the years she has been great in all apsects, communication, trust, supportive, loving and reliable on the the other hand i've been the exact opposite of that. I haven't cheated on her but it feels i have exactly done that with my lies, being irresponsible and not being supportive. She always tells me I don't take her serious and she's not my first priority, I agree with that 100% - i've been neglecting her for quite a while now busy with my soccer activities and not reliasing her needs. it even got to a point where i had to lie to her when going to those activities, i don't like the person i've become and i would like to do something about that. The first step i took was to ask her if we can move in together, she has not given me her answer as yet...

Look i want to be better man for the betterness of our relationship and definetly agree that i have a problem and i'm willing to tackle that problem with her by myside. i love this woman and i don't want to loose her.

Any advice that you can give is highly appreciated.....

Much Love
T

[cartomancy]

hmm, who actually suggested that it's too early to be married first, since you said we but it's always one person who suggested it first than the other person would agree.