What would you do?

[Chidis]

Hello,
I'm suffering through the ending stage of a long relationship. It hasn't been called yet but it is inevitable. In the meantime I met someone that I really clicked with, but when we met I was with my boyfriend, so he knows him too.
Would you tell the new guy of your attraction to him??

Thanks

[eightball61]

First off you have other problems to take care of. You need to settle things up with your current partner before you go out telling someone else your feelings. Even though your relationship maybe be ending that sets up as a form of cheating. How would you feel if your partner you still cared about did that to you?

Once the relationship is at the end then take some time off you regroup a few things. You dont want to lean to a rebound if you are not ready yet because you may end up regretting things. Spend the off time to get to know the new potential partner. Its not a bad idea to show feelings but remember take sometime off first before you move into another relationship.

If your current relationship is just about done and you have given up then why dont you just end it. There is no point in allowing this to go if you are not happy. Ending it now would be the best interest all the way around. I hope this sheds some light to your situation and please keep us updated with your thoughts.

[MissCheivious]

It's really easy to move from one person to another, especially if you're having problems with your current partner but, eightball is right. It might be easy but it's not fair. First it's not fair to your current partner because he trusts you whether you're having problems or not and secondly, it's not fair to the person you're trying to get with. They'll remember how you two first hooked up and always be wondering when the ball will drop for them. That's no way to start a relationship. Besides, what if you and your current partner can work through what you're going through? What if there is a chance and you're just not letting that happen because you have your eye on someone else? You should just be honest with your current partner and tell them there are too many problems, you don't want to work them out and breakup. Then you're free to do whatever you want with whomever you want.

[CalistaClap]

If you know the relatinship is over, then make it official BEFORE entering the new guy.

Then after it's official, give yourself some time to adjust to being without the ex, and THEN work on a new relationship.