GF worries way to much

[Coldstreak18]

I need help my gf worries way to much and i dont know what to do. Its 3 in the morning and I've been on the 4 for an hour with her crying and throwing up. she worries over the stupidest things. for instance, me and my ex dont really talk anymore. my gf was worried that if we break up we wont talk anymore and we wont be friends. I love my gf and I really miss her she lives 2 hours away. but this worrying has got to stop. it all started with a headache she woke up and was worried she couldn't get back to sleep then she started worrying over college which starts back up soon. and it just goes. I love her and i really want to help but i cant keep dealing with this i have to be up soon and i don't want to sleep because i want to help her.

I'm a little angry right now it just gets old. I haven't gotten mad at her at all I've tried my best to help her and I think i did i got her to calm down and she sounds much better. she is still nausea and she has to go to the bathroom alot. the amount she worries is insane she gave herself diarrhea and nausea just from worrying and the stress of it. She is going to start going talking to the school therapist when she school starts back up. I just needed to get this out. I love her she is amazing so kind and gentle my entire family loves her too. Her family is pretty rude to her. they call her fat when she isn't. could she lose a few pounds yeah so could i but she isn't fat by any means and i tell her that all the time. her sisters and parents just make fun of her constantly for anything.

sorry this is more like a rant. but what would you do?

[Helper]

What I would do is advise her to continue seeking therapy and I would slowly back away from the relationship. If she gets help, great. But I wouldnt let her continiously take me down because of her baggage. I have my own baggage to deal with, and only I can deal with it.

But this is me, not every1 would do this.

[Spaaron]

If you love her that much and she's worth it then help her all you can which is what your probably doing. But you should consider whether you want to keep this up, what if the therapy doesn't entirely help her situation? Then it just keeps going on and on? Your kind of stuck in a box.

Your situation is hard to say what i would do cause i've never been in your situation but i would help all i can and if it's not going anywhere i guess i'd leave because i don't want to be stuck like that all my life. Though i say that i'm not 100%

Have you tried talking to her and asking why she worries so much?? What about her family history if they only make fun of her and give negative comments then that could have mentally affected her to the way she is now. Try test her in a few ways where it is not extreme and tell her to relax you know start with simple things and situations and try to get her to see that she doesn't need to worry so much.

[eightball61]

What you're describing here is that she has an anxietystress disorder of some sort. She probably has these issues because of how she has been treated current and in the past. The best you cant try to do is comfort her for support while she is encourage to continue therapy. If this becomes to much thenyou do have another choice while she works on her.

[Howard]

What makes her worry so much,Could it be stress and anxiety?