haunted
08-04-2009, 09:29 PM
Hi all
i was in desparate need of some advice, heres my story. a little background about my family, parents are in very professional jobs, doctor. i am a doc myself and never had a relation all my life till now at the age of 30 yrs.so started dating this girl whose also a doctor thro matrimonial website and i have known her since 7 months and we are madly in love. i have never met her till now as we both are living in different country and becuase of job and leave,cudnt meet. but we/parents are planning to meet her in 2 months.now shes younger than me by 6yrs and earn a bit more than me,that doesn bother me. now since last 6 months since i have known her, we chat,sms 10-15times a day,when i/she get up,goes to work,finishes work,etc, and i am the one who calls her 99.999% of the time and till now have sent her 4 expensive gifts, all of them thro online shop thro FedX and DHL. once she received it,she was very happy,but she never appreciated it like i wud have. she kind of said this gadget is so complicated and dumps it in her her closet,doesnt use it. when i tell her how come u never call me,she tells me its to expensive although its not that much.
now this girl is very open minded and had lot of boyfriends in her life and never had a intimate relation with anyone till now.
now,what my next plan is her birthday is comin in month,shud i send her a gift,,cause aftr 2 months comes my birthday and want to c if she sends me something. although she keeps telling me i want to send u something,what shud i send,,but i dont want anything from her excpet her love.
its just that i never had a realtion with anyone till now cause i was busy with studies and she had lot of boyfriends and knows how to handle me or is she tesing me,, i dont know, what should i do??
please help.
should i stop callin her or shud i stop sendin her gift,,her birthday comin.
after reading this, can you all let me know what does this show, i love her more or she loves me more.
i am so mad about her,,only think about her 24/7.
thanks
i was in desparate need of some advice, heres my story. a little background about my family, parents are in very professional jobs, doctor. i am a doc myself and never had a relation all my life till now at the age of 30 yrs.so started dating this girl whose also a doctor thro matrimonial website and i have known her since 7 months and we are madly in love. i have never met her till now as we both are living in different country and becuase of job and leave,cudnt meet. but we/parents are planning to meet her in 2 months.now shes younger than me by 6yrs and earn a bit more than me,that doesn bother me. now since last 6 months since i have known her, we chat,sms 10-15times a day,when i/she get up,goes to work,finishes work,etc, and i am the one who calls her 99.999% of the time and till now have sent her 4 expensive gifts, all of them thro online shop thro FedX and DHL. once she received it,she was very happy,but she never appreciated it like i wud have. she kind of said this gadget is so complicated and dumps it in her her closet,doesnt use it. when i tell her how come u never call me,she tells me its to expensive although its not that much.
now this girl is very open minded and had lot of boyfriends in her life and never had a intimate relation with anyone till now.
now,what my next plan is her birthday is comin in month,shud i send her a gift,,cause aftr 2 months comes my birthday and want to c if she sends me something. although she keeps telling me i want to send u something,what shud i send,,but i dont want anything from her excpet her love.
its just that i never had a realtion with anyone till now cause i was busy with studies and she had lot of boyfriends and knows how to handle me or is she tesing me,, i dont know, what should i do??
please help.
should i stop callin her or shud i stop sendin her gift,,her birthday comin.
after reading this, can you all let me know what does this show, i love her more or she loves me more.
i am so mad about her,,only think about her 24/7.
thanks