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Cheesehead15
03-09-2005, 08:58 PM
well i really like this one girl....but i have made fun of her so much(i know very first grade right) im 15 and in high school should i even try to ask her out since i was so mean to her.....even though she is mean right back.... :D what should i do?
eightball61
03-09-2005, 09:35 PM
If you are both mean then it most likely in a flirting way. I suggest that you go for it and chance it. You have nothing to lose when you take a risk. You only lose out when you dont take the risk.
ronfq
03-09-2005, 10:12 PM
yes, definitely, go ask her out! but u might wanna approach her step by step since u guys been so playful to each other; she might take it as a joke if u ask her our suddenly.
smackie9
03-10-2005, 02:05 AM
A peace offering of some kind just might break the ice. A nice card with a flower is a nice start. :)
Rich
03-10-2005, 02:29 PM
You might want to go up to this girl and say " you know, I've been very mean to you sometimes and I just wanted to apologize. I'm sorry if I made you upset sometimes".

At that point she'll say something and you should have an opening. Maybe offer to buy her pizza or something as a way also showing that you were sorry.

And BTW....do this whether you're sorry or not. It's a line to get you two talking.

Rich
kulukuy
03-11-2005, 08:23 AM
ask her out and express what you really feel...
Cheesehead15
03-12-2005, 02:46 PM
well its the same girl and she's been extremley flirty with me latley layin her head on my shoulder, lookin into my eyes, starin at me. but she does some of these things with other people too so i dont know if she likes me. what do you think?
smackie9
03-12-2005, 07:26 PM
She's doing that to get some attention. Basically she's throwing out some bait to see what she can catch. Go ahead and ask her out. :)
Cheesehead15
03-13-2005, 02:20 PM
would it be bad to ask her friends to find out how she feels about me???? should i do it myself or write a note or something?
smackie9
03-13-2005, 04:26 PM
Do it yourself. But if you are still somewhat shy, try a note. It's better not to have her friends involved.
eightball61
03-13-2005, 05:32 PM
would it be bad to ask her friends to find out how she feels about me???? ?


Do it yourself because often times friends can mess things up.
Rich
03-14-2005, 02:36 PM
It's never to early to start acting like a man. Get some nads and take control of your situation.

Ask this girl out yourself.

Let's go. Chop, chop.

The longer you procrastinate the longer you give someone else the opportunity to step in front of you.

Rich